Maybe you have a friend who — no matter what happens — will always try to want to hear about your life, listen to you for two seconds and then go off on whatever topic of that person’s life at the time.

We all have a friend like that. We all have those types of friends that are constantly bitching and complaining about their life bitching and complaining about their situation, but they never really listen to you.

The question I always ask everybody is why do we remain friends with that person? Because those types of people come to you for advice but never listen to it anyways. They solicit your advice non-stop and yet they talk about the same thing over and over again. Maybe it’s a relationship, maybe it’s work, whatever it might be, and you tell them the same things over and over again.

I’ve got a friend who constantly tells me that he’s in bad shape. He’s been doing it for 20 years. I constantly tell him the same thing — you need to start working out, you’ll feel better about yourself. He says I know, I know, I know. The next time I see him he says the same thing, but yet he never takes the advice.

What Is A Bitch

The problem in life is a lot of people look for advice, they seek advice, they love it. They’re all about seeking advice, seeking help, but what happens is they never act upon it. They’re talkers not doers, they just want to vent, but yet they never want the solution.

Do any of you know people like this, and what do you say to those friends? Do you keep offering the same advice over and over again? Or do you tell them, I’ve been giving you the same advice for 20 years, you never listen? How much can we put up with in life? I want you guys to think about that one today.