Do Women Use You For Your Money? By David Wygant
There are quite a number of men here in Los Angeles who are over the age of forty, and who enjoy chasing the incredibly frustrating younger puma in her low to mid twenties. These men will always tell me “They are just so pretty, and I love their hard bodies.”

My response in my head is “They don’t really love your 40+ body,” but I know ten things they do like about you:

1. Your money and the free meals it brings
2. Your big house that they can have their own room in to hide from you
3. Your cool car that says “Look at me, I’m middle aged!”
4. The way you kiss their ass because they know that your obsessed with them
5. The wonderful vacations that they cannot afford
6. The occasional gift from Tiffany’s or Barney’s
7. Having complete control over you so that when they’re having sex with their 24 year-old lover, you actually think they’re out with their friends
8. The ability to blow you off whenever they want knowing you’ll come back chasing after them
9. They can talk about all their random stuff and you act like you’re really interested
10. There’s always another one of you around the corner, so they upgrade you for a bigger, better deal

I like to look at a 24 year-old hard body, just like I like to look at Krispy Kreme doughnuts when I drive by their store, the same way I look at some of the homes in Beverly Hills. For all three of these things, I’m glad I am not involved with them:

1. I don’t have to be involved in some 24 year-old’s dramatic life that includes drunken nights and annoying friends
2. I’m a health nut. While I like to look at Krispy Kreme doughnuts, I don’t like how I feel after I’ve eaten one; and
3. I don’t like the mortgage payment on a $13,000,000.00 home.

Bottom Line: Women closer to my age range are far more interesting in every way. I had enough of women in their twenties when I was in my twenties. I don’t want to bring back those days.

If you are one of these men and you desire to marry a woman twenty or more years your junior, you might as well start writing the alimony checks now. It’s not going to work. It’s time to grow up and spend time with women closer to your age range. There are a ton of beautiful women out there who are over the age of thirty. You will find that you will be able to have a much deeper connection with these women (plus they’ll be much more accepting of your sagging ass!).

If you are a man in your 40s and you crave younger pumas, you need to learn the art of engagement and not the art of begging and selling yourself.