On Confidence (Podcast)

Men's Advice Confidence, Uncategorized

By David Wygant February 20, 2013 310 Shares

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You hear it all the time:

Women are looking for a man that’s confident.

But what exactly is confidence?

What defines real confidence and fake confidence?

What is the number one thing that makes women feel they’re in the presence of a confident, sexy, powerful man?

How does a confident man act every single day?

How does a confident man conduct his business?

All these questions will be answered in today’s podcast.

You want to turn a woman on?

Listen and learn:

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Ben Hunt

Wednesday, February 20th, 2013

Great Podcast David! :) Epitomised the foundation of confidence I've built for myself the last three years. It takes time and effort, but it's soo worth it! :D

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mikal

Wednesday, February 20th, 2013

awesome podcast have you watched a dvd called the secret. it pertains to the law of attraction. also you ask believe recieve every morning when i wake up. i look in the mirror and say im grateful for my family life friends and being on this earth i promise myself to be open with everyone i meet to smile make compliments i am smart fuuny attractive i will make a connection with individuals i pass by on the street i know not every woman finds me attractive but there are ones out there who do when approaching individuals i promise to give them the best seconds or minutes of who i am i promise to continue working on myself daily i promise to overcome challenges that lie about me i say these things daily with a smile on my face and i tell you what my days are almost always positive

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spence

Wednesday, February 20th, 2013

Dude, Your stuff is awesome! Spence

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Doll

Wednesday, February 20th, 2013

I hope all single men listen to this podcast; it is right on the mark. Lack of confidence is a major turn-off for me and from this podcast I guess I'm not the only woman who feels that way. Nice job David.

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john

Wednesday, February 20th, 2013

Inspiring podcast. Seriously David.. your best yet.

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Alverto

Wednesday, February 20th, 2013

Very motivating and that kick to the ass that I needed! David I bought your book Naked as well im rereading it to get a full understanding of everything you put into it.

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Jake

Thursday, February 21st, 2013

David Wygant, this is why I have been coming to listen to you and read your tips on not only dating and relationships but also life for years. Great podcast, very inspiring.

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Lee

Thursday, February 21st, 2013

Wow. I know I need to build that level of confidence not only to attract women, but to feel free of not living the life I know I can live. I want to work on building my confidence. Of course it wont be easy, but there will be something amazing waiting for me when I am truly confident. Amazing podcast David.

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Peter

Thursday, February 21st, 2013

Very good blog post. I would say that confidence is really nothing magical, it is just knowing and doing something really well, because you have done it thousands of times before. Look at the top dogs in any field, they are pretty much always really relaxed. That is because they know their stuff so well that they can play with it. So, the secret to confidence is: practice, practice, and practice more.

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erick

Thursday, February 21st, 2013

RIP ears

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Bob

Thursday, February 21st, 2013

Trouble is,for some, it takes so much time and work, and so long to overcome, being shy, introverted, unconfident, and inept with women and not understand how they think, act, and behave, that they are well into their golden years and past their prime, before they can make use of all they have learned. I guess, life is too short. At least, those that have found Wygant, and are not "naturals", at least have an advantage over those that have to figure it out on their own. It's so funny! Women don't have a clue how hard it is for men to be MEN in today's society...

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Technoboy

Sunday, March 3rd, 2013

Damn straight, Bob! I've fritted away about a decade of my life focusing on career and recreational activities while sitting in the bleachers when it comes to the dating game before I finally decided to step up again. I found Wygant and still have a good deal of prime time left though, lucky me. The biggest trouble in the dating game to me is the lack of feedback + honesty from women. If I take up an activity, oh say playing an instrument, I know exactly what I am doing right and wrong and can easily improve. When I try the dating game, I get false answers, fake politeness, fake smiles, fake excuses, fake numbers, etc. It's not like playing a difficult game - I love a challenge - it's like tossing a quarter into a video arcade and getting an instant game over screen. Other problem is dating is not an intellectual activity so you can't really learn it by book or video or audio alone. But I'm over all that. My biggest hurdle now is I noticed the world has ADHD. It's very difficult to pry a woman's attention away from her distraction generators or her herd of friends these days. Young ones especially. I've done a lot of difficult things. I can design and develop stunning apps, video games, and web sites, teach calculus, perform standup, juggle fire, ride a unicycle, snowboard down expert slopes backwards, win table tennis tournaments, beat the hardest level on Dance Dance Revolution, etc. But dealing with women? That's the hardest one ever. Made definite progress since I started but still working on that one.

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Jen

Sunday, February 24th, 2013

You're right Bob - women don't have a clue how difficult it is for men.

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Tsali

Saturday, February 23rd, 2013

I feel like this is just what the standard of men should be, and the path to happiness. I'm slowly getting there, trying (poorly) to put others before myself without wanting anything back. My career requires me to improve others' lives, and it's definitely helping me change myself, but it's still really easy to focus more on my own lack of accomplishment than my students' accomplishments.

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Mike

Sunday, February 24th, 2013

I think there is a communication gap between men and women which at times makes it hard to understand. I believe it's both hard on women as it is on men, only in different ways. But we live in the information age where there is a lot of information one can learn and use, in order to help them find the relationship of their dreams! :)

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Mar

Sunday, February 24th, 2013

No magic pill. Having this level of confident and maturity takes work. Lets not be the men who look at the work in front of us (inside of us rather), and give up before or slightly after we get started. I remember years ago I had trouble looking anyone in the eyes, male or female. I finally made a commitment to myself that I would work on it each and every day. It took time, courage, work. That work paid off! Then, I started focusing on owning my perspective n point of view on things. Women would described me as 'refreshing' to talk to. I've gotten to a place now where I know that a dialogue with me offers women an unique experience. Nothing cocky, just a realization. There are a few women in my life that make silly excuses just to be around me or to spend time with me in person or on the phone. They know I'm in a relationship and that I wouldn't violate that trust. This seems to turn them on even more. Lets build that woman intoxicating confidence that will allow us to be successful with them, as well as the world.

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Technoboy

Sunday, March 3rd, 2013

I think there are many ways to get confident but for me, the best one is SKILL. It's hard not to be confident at something if you are very skilled at it. And the best way to get skilled at something? Just put in a lot of hours of good focused practice, that's all. The other key point to me is CLARITY - knowing exactly what your strengths are, what you are and are not interested in, what your personal goals are, etc. I think if you have those two, confidence + success will follow.

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