Butterface!

She’s got a rockin’ body… but her face?!

What about the opposite scenario? In this situation it’s the face.  An angelic face. An amazing, beautiful face.  The opposite sex face of perfection to you. The face that even in the glow of the iPhone while texting in bed at night, is absolutely amazing.  Some of you know exactly what I mean.

But the problem with that face is it’s attached to a body that when naked doesn’t really do much for you. What do you do?

It leads to a relationship where you’re monitoring their diet, hoping they’ll go to the gym.  But, they don’t.  They are exactly who they are.  This amazing face with this incredible personality.

Can you do it?  Are you able to date somebody who’s less than ideal in something that’s important to you?  If you’re a fitness nut, can you date the girl with the perfect face who’s 30 pounds overweight?  Can you do it?

What if you’re a body person and you’re hit with the most perfect body you’ve ever been with, but the face isn’t exactly what you like, can you do it?  Can you overlook their imperfections?  And once again for those of you right now that are getting all pissed off because it’s the inside that counts, beauty is on the inside… Come on now, let’s be honest.  We all need to be attracted to the person we’re with.  We need to be excited physically about the person we’re with.

Do You Look For Perfection In A Partner?

So, would you do it?  Could you date a girl 30 pounds overweight with the perfect face?  Or could you date the girl in perfect physical shape with the but-her-face?

I’m looking forward to seeing your remarks down below. I’m not telling you what I would do. If I tell you exactly what I would do, I’m going to be executed on the block.  And I’m not looking to get executed today. I’m looking to get into a healthy conversation amongst all you guys.  But-her-face, but-his-face. Do men have a butterface?

There is a term out there that a lot of men use. For all the women reading the blog today, I would like you to chime in and tell me if there’s a female equivalent.  Two men standing there, talking on a street corner.  A woman they spot in the distance.  Almost like pirates on top of a mast looking through an eye glass going “Hoo-hoo, a woman! A woman yonder away!”

The woman’s coming closer. The guys get excited. They know the body is good, they can always see a good body from a distance. But they’re wondering — what about her face?

She gets closer and closer and closer, they finally see…

She has a ‘butterface.’

Everything was great on her, but her face is awful. That’s how the term ‘butterface’ came in to existence. Do you have a buthisface?

Do women see a guy coming and he’s got big man shoulders and he’s looking good and strong. Do you look at him and say “Damn, everything is great, but his face.”

Which leads me to today’s topic, what’s more important to you. We all would love to have that perfect specimen we’re attracted to, you know? To me I love a small, petite little woman with a beautiful face, that’s my ideal. But we never get the ideal. We seem to get a variation. So now I’m going to ask you today, write down below, lets get into a very healthy, non-insulting debate on the blog.

You’re dating somebody, they’ve got the best body you’ve ever been with in your entire life, I mean every curve is in the right place. When they’re naked you absolutely drip or get hard with enthusiasm. But unfortunately in certain light and at certain angles, the face isn’t exactly what you like. Especially when they put the glow of the iPhone in bed up against their face, you see some really weird shapes and distortions.

Can you do it? The personality is there, everything else is there. But can you date somebody who’s got the perfect body, but her face is kind of a turn off?

How about the reverse; the face is amazing. One of the most beautiful faces you’ve ever dated. Personality, once again, is fantastic. The personality is absolutely amazing in every which way. But her body leaves you limp. It’s not what turns you on. Could you, would you?

What are your ‘must haves’?

Let me know, brother.