Becoming An Alpha-Male

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By David Wygant December 31, 2013 351 Shares

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Are you a leader or a receiver?

Do you take the lead in life, or do you let other people, and women especially push you around?

In today’s society men have become seriously passive. They’ve allowed their masculine energy to be dominated, and a lot of guys I meet are completely controlled by their female partners. I was flicking around some home improvement program a while ago, and on it some guy was talking about converting his garage into a games room.

When the presenter asked him when he was thinking of starting on the work, the guy said, “Well I’m not sure whether my fiancee is going to let me do it yet. But if I’m allowed I want to start work in the New Year.”

What?

If I’M ALLOWED?

Now don’t get me wrong, this isn’t a debate about equality or men taking control back from women. It’s about being comfortable with your own masculine energy, and not being afraid to make decisions. Stand up and be a man. Speak with authority. State your case. Make decisions. Put yourself out there. Ask women out. Tell them where you’re taking them on a date.

Do you think any woman wants to date someone who asks their permission to do everything? Do you think it turns them on when you coyly look at her and ask, “You’re beautiful. Can I kiss you?”

No, it doesn’t turn them on at all. They want you to claim them. They want you to look at them in the eyes, grab them, and kiss them passionately. Stop being so passive, stand up, and be proud of being a man. In this video, I go into this in more detail, and give you an easy way to switch your mindset.

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Hans

Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

Good blog, but: a man has to know his place. The house, and everything in it, is the female's domain. She controls it, she makes it cozy, it is super important to her. I really couldn't care less about that new oven, but if she wants it, it is going to come. Everything outside the house is up for grabs for any male who wants it, and he who wants it most usually gets it.

Yureon

Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

"It’s about being comfortable with your own masculine energy, and not being afraid to make decisions." It's kind of hard to do that when feminism and society have become very hostile towards masculinity, and would just simply label you as sexist or possessive should you attempt... "No, it doesn’t turn them on at all. They want you to claim them. They want you to look at them in the eyes, grab them, and kiss them passionately." So if they want us to do all of that, why are they doing and saying things like this? "women especially push you around." Make frequent attempt to emasculate us...and don't say to "test" us because when we "pass" we get screwed over anyway...like shit tests that have no right answer... It's like if I wanted someone to be my friend...I WOULD NOT bully them, harass them, make fun of them, hurt them, but for women and their logic...to get a man after you, you emasculate them....you their their masculinity as an affront to your femininity, and you play hard to get and you MAKE HIM, work for your attention, and even if he does WE DON'T OWE men ANYTHING so screw him... "Now don’t get me wrong, this isn’t a debate about equality or men taking control back from women." Unfortunately, this is exactly what it boils down to... If you are hot rich and powerful, yes they will "let" you have the lead because they know they are being taken to nirvana... If you aren't in power they will blame you for it...if you are in power and not their ideal, they will call you that famous term "possessive" or controlling or manipulative, or all those other terms that they rouse themselves and men over,... The reason why men are becoming "passive" is because being alpha is not working for them...yes it's what women say they want on paper...BUT like others have pointed out their desires change as fast as the wind... It's like if someone gave advice on how to get strong abs...and they said pushups...and more and more people found out it was actually sit ups...more and more people would stop doing push ups... We see this here...someone tells us to be ALPHA...we go out and do it...and women still reject us, find us too short, or find us cocky after giving us that "you're not hot enough to be acting like that" look we have all experienced... Now people are trying the BETA type...it's easier, and we get to sit back for a change...(the only problem is this doesn't work either) so now if possible there has to be a third route...usually defined as (money). "They want you to claim them." No I am sure a femininst could say it better herself, not to speak for them but WOMEN aren't PROPERTY, we are independent and blah blah blah... Yeah they may want you to claim them, so they have an outlet for telling everyone how possessive hey there's that word again you are. Unless of course you are her ideal( which is rich hot tall etc) then in that case nevermind all that.

Yureon

Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

Fuck that she wants my roof over her head, she is damn well going to be doing all of that shit... She can "control" it when she pays the rent/mortgage in FULL and it is in HER name... She makes it cozy...ah ok next time I'll let a woman carry up 200 pound pax units and the box springs in a 6 floor walkup. "Do you think any woman wants to date someone who asks their permission to do everything? Do you think it turns them on when you coyly look at her and ask, “You’re beautiful. Can I kiss you?”" No but in this fashion you won't get arrested or a restraining order as opposed to "just going for it."

Yureon

Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

How is that for manning up?

Brad

Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

In the animal kingdom, the alpha male is often also the physically largest. It simply comes down to the ability to protect the group. As a man, a human, I can imagine that if you are short, you will not be outrageously attractive to women. Unless you are famous, like if you are a celebrity, or a movie star. Tom Cruise is a good example. Or George Clooney, and Brad Pitt, both are 5'11", not really very tall, but ANY woman would go out with them.

Yureon

Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

If I hear one more circle of life analogy... but yes these larger males (taller bigger) women are more attracted to...and you know what that;s fine...what ISN'T fine is doing what women do best and be lying and deceptive by saying it's this inside that counts and things like that DON'T MATTER or NEVER Take into consideration, when selecting someone who has approached them...notice how I said approached not gone after themselves. 5'11 isn't short...5'5 5'6' 5'7 is "short" plus they are FAMOUS STARS WITH MONEY and LOTS OF IT. STATUS LOTS OF IT. LOOKS LOTS OF IT.

Brad

Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

So maybe you are right, maybe that is the way it is, if you are short and not rich and famous, you are screwed, and hot women will never find you attractive. If that is the reality, you are left with the fuglies. Thinking about it, nature is quite cruel in making sure the best female genes are always mixed with the best male genes. Let's just assume for a minute that this IS reality, would the whole David Wygant thing be nothing more than a hoax then ?