Want To Become Better With Women? Challenge Yourself!

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By David Wygant November 29, 2013 256 Shares

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world.

2014 isn’t far away now!

How has this year been for you?

Have you beaten your nerves or fear of rejection? Have you started meeting more women? Have you finally got yourself that hot girlfriend you’ve been dreaming about for ages?

If not, why not?

It’s not because there aren’t any women out there. Unless you live on some kind of stranded island there are women everywhere. So what’s holding you back? Confidence? Monkey-chatter? Fear? OR is it because you’re still making excuses? Listen, I know most of us are guilty of procrastinating at some time or another, but if you want to change something in your life, you have to DO something to change it!

What happens if you do nothing? Absolutely nothing!

It doesn’t matter whether you want to lose weight, meet women, start your own business. Whatever you want in life, unless you push yourself, unless you get out your comfort zone and actually make an effort, you’ll never achieve anything. In this video I challenge you. I challenge you to start taking action, and I challenge you to start getting better with women. Don’t put it off any longer!

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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john

Friday, November 29th, 2013

Sure.. there are women EVERYWHERE. Very very few are actually single though. I just recently read an article written by a Ukranian Women about what Ukranian women want in a man. (She said she wrote the article because men from the west go to the slavic nations thinking the beautiful women there are easy. She wants to set the record straight.) To sum it up in one word ... MONEY. (Looks too.) She said "Why do you think most beautiful women in western countries tend to marry rich businessmen? .. Because THEY CAN. Why? Because they are beautiful!" She also said .. " women who say looks aren't important.. I bet they aren't beautiful. Have you ever seen a beautiful feminist? I haven't" Also.. "Every woman wants her prince charming. But more prince than charming.. financially speaking." You know what? She's right. This is an article telling you what beautiful women want from the mouth of a beautiful woman herself. The one thing I see in her writing that I don't see / hear from women over here?.... HONESTY. I can link to the article for anyone interested. I'd have to find it again though.

mike

Friday, November 29th, 2013

John where in gods name is this place you live that has no single women in it? Honestly, it's insane to say there are very few single women around. I wonder whether it's because women tell YOU they have a boyfriend as a polite way of saying they're not interested in you? I just don't get it. Im in a tiny town and there are plenty of single women. And anyway, what about the women who have boyfriends and then split up, or in this boob-less wasteland you speak of do the women mate for life and never split from their men? There are plenty of attractive single women out there!

john

Friday, November 29th, 2013

Mike, it's not that there are no single women, it's my age. (40). When I say women are never single, I'm including women who have boyfriends, or are dating someone also. I'm sure the're out there. I just never see them in public. They are always with a guy, or there is always a ring. Here in the midwest, people tend to marry very early, usually as soon as they finish high school. Plus, with the large selection of internet dating sites, people meeting at work, or through friends, women have no reason to stay single longer than a few days, at most. (Plus, I can't use internet dating, because good pictures of me do not exist, and I don't have the right "stats". ( Degree, professional career, over 6' tall, etc. Things women demand online.) ) And these aren't "excuses". They would BE excuses if I hadn't tried. So, of course, if you are a young guy who is fairly attractive, there are PLENTY of single women for you. At my age, for me, there are NONE left. They DO NOT EXIST. ALL the good ones are TAKEN. That is what I mean by that.

Peter

Saturday, November 30th, 2013

John, you are a reasonable guy with your head being screwed on straight, and I must admit that what you say makes sense. You don't even have to be 40, at 30, the situation is not much different. Most women have settled, are in committed relationships, and have families, all of which tends to complicate things. There are tons of divorced women, which means you will have to put up with somebody else's kids. It can feel like you have missed the boat when you are 40 and still single. That said, I know tons of women who would leave their partner in a heartbeat if the right guy came along. The right guy, well, in my experience, really does not have to be a knight in shining armor; that is an illusion most women have shed by the time they hit their first marriage crisis. A guy who listens, appreciates them, just a 'normal' guy without any psycho traits, and who is not an alcoholic, who has his life together, will usually be more than they can hope for, and want.

John

Sunday, December 1st, 2013

Yeah Peter, I agree. But about there being plenty of divorced women around... The vast majority of divorces are initiated by the wife. The reason, in almost 100% of those divorces?.... SHE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE. Sure, ok, I could hit on married women, and try to wreck a home, and break someone up. I just find it wrong.. And I really don't want the drama.

Brad

Friday, November 29th, 2013

Very good blog ! I found that in order to get really good at something, anything, you have to be kind of obsessed with it. We have become a society of average, and that is not a good thing. Doing something 9 to 5 does not make you an expert. You have to do it, dream it, breathe it, 24 by 7. If you want to find out what women really want, I could tell you that looks don't mean a thing when the looks are not backed by limitless ambition, an incredible sense of humor, the ability to positively lead others, to inspire confidence, to provide a strong sense of safety and security, and to really make her feel like a woman. The latter being probably the most important.How you do that...just dive in, experiment, and you will find out that it has to with you being a strong lead, making her feel safe, secure, someone she can trust. Be the man, let her be the woman.

Jukka V

Saturday, November 30th, 2013

Dear John. if you're carrying this kind of negativity every way you go, do you think women aren't going to feel it? As you're depressing yourself with all these EXCUSES not to even bother, why would a woman bother either? The boyfriend could also be an excuse to get rid of negative people. That isn't their fault. It's you that drive single women even further away from you because you tell yourself not to bother, and they sense it even if you don't say it. Look around, man. Not every women want what you've described. They may say they do, but these things not quite satisfy their needs. They want a man who's strong and confident. mentally and physically. You don't seem like that. You have given up and justified it to yourself. Women wear ring to drive negative people, fakers and pick-up-artists away.. and even if they were married, COUPLES DO DIVORCE from time to time. This is a fact, and it's also good news for you.

Bobby

Saturday, November 30th, 2013

How do those words make me feel? Well nothing! because no one puts more pressure on me than me. I notice that a shit ton of my confidence doesn't happen when I feel everything is nice and stable, but when i'm progressing in something in my non sexual life... even if there is more anxiety. I think it's good to keep the anxiety level high in life. Makes you move... make changes.

Brad

Saturday, November 30th, 2013

Bobby, are you saying that you are more confident when you face challenges, when you step out of your comfort zone ? I would say that is great ! Why not simply transfer that to meeting women you are attracted to ?

Bobby

Sunday, December 1st, 2013

I do man. Something about being in chaos makes me calm. If you're working hard and under a lot of pressure it just makes you feel more deserving of everything. Although I still fuck up more than I'd like. Ughhh and Thanksgiving I got cockblocked by my stepmother. Should have gotten this chicks number earlier in the night because I got ushered out at the end. Bleugh. bad bad bad lol. There's no getting around that uncomfortable feeling, at times. Pain in the balls for everyone.

Michael S

Wednesday, December 4th, 2013

Thanks for the challenge David! But I started yesterday already and my first approach...oh well you guess.. Nervous, bad body language, fast talking.. so the result was rejection.. But hey you know what? At least I TRIED! And I went on to my next one.. With the second one I had a great conversation she was very responsive and i was suddenly more chilled out after only 2 yes 2 approaches.. So this week I want to apprach at least 5-10 women and you're right david I shouldn't care about a fucking rejection.. She is the one who is going to miss the fun not me since I am the PRICE.

Bob

Wednesday, December 4th, 2013

It makes absolutely NO SENSE to me that getting a damn woman should take all this time, effort, expense, and practice. Aren't men and women meant to be attracted to each other, naturally? If it is as hard as Wygant preaches, to find a woman, it would certainly not be worth my time to pursue it. Nothing in my life comes that hard, certainly not something as simple as finding a girlfriend. That should be the least of a man's problems...

Peter

Wednesday, December 4th, 2013

Good point, Bob. However, I think time, effort, expense and practice are all part of the chase. The chase is a big part of the fun going after girls. Without it, would it not be utterly boring ? Have you ever had a woman knocking down your door ? How attractive is that ! I compare going after girls to going after anything, money, a better job, fishing, hunting. Imagine that trophy bass jumping right into your boat, there is no fun in that, none at all. You need to lure it, chase it, it will get away once, twice, you will see it but not catch it, and when you eventually do, it is the greatest feeling in the world.

Jack

Wednesday, December 4th, 2013

Yes Bob after reading all this, for me sometimes there is feeling that it's more easy to become world champion in 100m sprint as getting women... If I want to train running I just go and train nobody look at me as fool if I want to be better driving car I just go and do that nobody look at me as fool, I can do that alone, so David that's a huge difference compared to meeting women...

Dinand

Thursday, December 5th, 2013

Hi there, First of all, David you made me smile so much with your FCK you video. Good thing! Second: I'm in FCK-ing Odessa for two years. So, let me respond on the message of a pretty Ukrainian girl. Yes, here it's: "you looks are more expensive than your money". Get this right, this is a female perspective. Down here I can talk with 1, 10, 20, 50, 100 girls per day. And on average I've talked with 15-20 per day. With different results, and as you say, I don't give a damn. I get 9,9 out of ten phone numbers. That's easy. Slept with numerous women, but nothing serious. On average the girls age is 22(!) while I like to settle down with someone (30+). So, I'm going into hibernation. (It's getting winter here). May be David, you can shake up things here a bit. Seriously, 50+ Americans who don't have a clue, and who come here through one of the fabulous dating agencies get totally fck-ed up. It's merely glutton for punishment. I will test the 1, 2, 3 step approach of Vitalydztv at YT and I let you know about the results. His 3 Q's: "1. Are you single? 2. Do you think, I look fine? 3. So, why wouldn't you kiss me?" And then you kiss her ON THE MOUTH. This will be fun :) But girls are also flaky here (especially in Odessa) because everybody is hitting on them. Regards, Dinand

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