Be Like The New York Jets

Men's Advice Confidence, Uncategorized

By David Wygant January 20, 2010 310 Shares

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After years of coaching and working with people, I have found that the one thing people lack is what Rex Ryan and the New York Jets have going for them in the upcoming game against the Colts.

It is the one thing that so many people lack that, if they had it, would make their life feel like they are playing in their own version of the Super Bowl every day.

So what is that one essential thing? I’m glad you asked.

Listen to today’s podcast and find out what it is:

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Max

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

David- I'm not a big football fan but the way you were describing football and dating, I'm really inspired man. Plus now i will have to look into the Jets:)

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Max

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Have you ever thought about becoming sport announcer David. You would do just amazing on tv or Radio. Maybe you can have something like the Howard Stern show:0

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yours howe

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Wow I can't believe Jets are actually making it happen. I had no hopes for them, but hey they believed in themselves and making it happen. That's what really matters. What I learned is it doesn't matter who doubt you but as long as you believe that's all it matters.

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Coach Jacob

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Howe- I like how you put it. Ignore all criticism and keep going forth your dreams. I believe we are our biggest critique, if we can stop all that crap or monkey chatter, then we can totally be focused towards are ideals.So great lesson learned Howe.

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yours howe

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Thanks our defensive coach:)

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yours howe

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Jacob- how you fuckin do it man, how you improved so fast??? I can never figure it out.

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Clint

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

In addition to what Max said, David I felt your voice today man. Sometimes I look back and think to myself, why didn't i start to believe more in myself in the past?

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Clint

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

I also wanted to thank all the coaches (Kim, Khiem, Jacob & Adam) for their amazing support, it was really nice how you described them in a football term.

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Coach Jacob

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Hey thanks Client, it means a lot to hear that! And about your question, why didn't you learn to believe in yourself past? I used to ask myself the same questions...but then David helped me realize that I wasn't ready that time to learn it, so you just have let the past go, and focus on the NOW!

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Coach Jacob

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Sorry buddy misspelled your name, I meant to say Clint:)

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Clint

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

No problem about the spelling. I am worse than you when it comes to grammar and spelling hahahha Are you saying that, in the past I wasn't ready to accept that wisdom but now I'm ready, and should focus in the now instead of the past. It give me comport think about it like that, great way to look at it.

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Coach Jacob

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Exactly Clint:)

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Nabil Gulamani

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Excellent podcast David. mindset is very important. I think the main reason people have a hard time with being persistent is because of the negative emotions from rejection that drain them down. Learning to overcome those emotions will help a lot.

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Coach Jacob

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Howe- There is nothing to figure out. You must not think but do. It all goes back to the fundamentals we once talked about in the phone coaching. Remember? You are sometimes thinking more than doing. And that thinking gets you in trouble more often. I believe in your ability but you still haven't been consistently putting it all to practice. Listen to todays podcast again, and the excuse product.

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yours howe

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

I don't know why but ya sometimes i get so in my fuckin head man. I think its because sometimes I hang with my pua friends, and they're such a bad influence. All they want to do is hardcore pickup, non of them live a lifestyle. Its all about getting in some girls pants night in night out. What your advice on how to pick the right friends? Should I hang with my pua friends. But ja Jacob I'm gonna put this into consistent practice, good straightforward advice. I got the excuse product a week ago, but will listen to it tonight.

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wygant fan

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

I have to listen to this tonight! Sounds like a great podcast! I just have one question: I usually listen to my iPhone but the regular podcast links don't work for me,and I forgot the other website address to go to get the podcasts. If anyone remembers let me know! My iPhone is making it difficult for me to get the podcasts, it might also be too much of a social distraction. ... a little less time with the iPhone and a little more time with real people might be a good goal for the rest of the year. lol

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Charles

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

The way the podcast ended is absolutely powerful. If you dont believe in yourself after listening to this or at least want to believe in yourself...you should definitely believe in this podcast and listen to it until you believe in yourself!

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Rick

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Charles- I was kind of expecting David to have an ending but the ending never happens, and he left his listener to figure out the rest pretty powerful stuff!!! I wonder is there a pt. 2?

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Matt Bernstein

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Great podcast, the Colts will be the Jets toughest challenge. ANY GIVEN SUNDAY Wish your team the best David!!

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Matt Bernstein

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Speaking of a 1 or 2 early, Bill Belichick let some key players lose a year or two early!!

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Matt Bernstein

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

he got rid of some key players a year or two early*** The fine line between trying to be perfect and having people actually understand what I'm trying to say :)

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Tony

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Love the wednesday podcast keep em coming man! And you have a awesome DW team!

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Charles

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Rick- pt 2 is the 'whats your excuse' program :)

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Rick

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Good one Charles:)

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Zwelie

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

Thanks you David!

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Sameer

Wednesday, January 20th, 2010

That is one fucking awesome podcast !! I think i needed that.......... now only if i start practising that ! I get beat everyday in my head ! i Just feel like giving up sometimes.....but this podcast really inspires me.....i just hope and wish this inspiration lasts and transforms into action on my part !

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Johnny

Thursday, January 21st, 2010

David, I really loved this podcast. I last saw a video about how Will Smith did reached his success. And he is talking about the same topics. He says that you have to believe in it. The video is called "Will's Wisdom" on YouTube. Here is also the link to the video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OLN2k0b3g70 This is not my video, but I did like it very much so I did want to share it with you guys. I hope you guys like it. The podcast (and also the video) did really inspired me.

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Kevin

Thursday, January 21st, 2010

Amazing Will Smith video.. thanks for sharing

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Wayde

Thursday, January 21st, 2010

awesome message ... believing is seeing

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Tony

Friday, January 22nd, 2010

Dave, I can honestly say that you're an inspiration to all of us.

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