Everyone complains when people aren’t decisive. Women complain when men aren’t decisive, and men complain about women doing the same thing.

Here’s the bottom line: do you know why you are indecisive? It’s because you’re on the fence about somebody. That is why you are indecisive.

If you really liked that person, you wouldn’t be so indecisive.

I’m referring to a woman we were just checking out online. She’s looking for a guy aged 28 to 45, and she wants the older guy because she thinks he’ll be more decisive in his life.

The fact is that we’re all indecisive until we find the person that we really want to be with – then we are decisive. If we really like somebody then we will be decisive. We’ll go after them, we’ll make sure that we call them back, we pay attention to their needs and desires, and we’ll be very in tune with their feeling – that is being decisive.

I know that I was dating someone recently and she said to me, “you’re just so indecisive.” The reason that I was so indecisive was that I just didn’t care. I just wasn’t that in to her.

So I think that it’s just one of those excuses that people make that everyone does, and it should be socially acceptable. Really, everyone is indecisive until you find the person that you are decisive about.

The only way you will ever learn how to be decisive is to get out of your head and eliminate the monkey chatter.

Todays video is just the cure.