Battle Of The Sexes

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By David Wygant September 26, 2007 243 Shares

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I was recently speaking at Georgetown University and I decided to to see who can intrigue the opposite sex more.

Men or Women?

Who do you think won?

Lets open a Hump Day discussion.

Who do you think are better natural flirts men or women?

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Yakub

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

That was so fun watching you. Your energy on the stage, and how everyone was having a blast!!

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David Wygant

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

Thanks Yakub and what was really fun was heading over to American U after and walking down memory lane. As you know all of what I was speaking about is in my mastery series program for men......and if any guy wants to learn how to take his communication skills deeper with women you can check out the products page on my site. Yakub you need to come out to LA for the next bootcamp so i can work more with you......you are going to be a master instructor one day. You really get this...that it is not about seducing women or picking them up but it is all about creating a powerful lifestyle every day. Great Job and as always it was a blast hanging with you.

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Jessica

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

No contest. Men are better natural flirts. Men usually start the game! That's just my opinion!

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BobM

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

Jessica- There may be more men than women who are good at flirting, but overall, there are just too many clueless men, and as a gender, the women win hands down. The key is, so much of flirting is really just personal conversation and getting at the essence of the other person. Women do this all the time among themselves, while men do it rarely, with anyone. I can't tell you how much of an eye-opener this site has been for me. I've had occasional successful flirts before, but it was pretty much hit and miss. I never realized that a few unifying principles could make such a difference. This does beg a philosophical question, however. If a woman is trying to work it, but the man isn't getting the signal or can't respond in a meaningful way, is she actually good at it?, Anyway, props to David for doing so much to improve the whole process for all concerned.

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Jim2

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

No contest. Women are better natural flirts. That's just my opinion!

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Yakub

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

I know.... I had such a great time hanging out with you AND walking down the memory lane. Oh..yea and the Ice-cream was really good:) Your mastery series is an amazing program, and it got to be the top #1 dating product in the world. I listen to it time to time to refresh my memory. It has so many valuable information in it. I really recommend it to anyone who wants to create a powerful and attractive lifestyle. My lifestyle has shifted so much since bootcamp. I truly see my progress and I am really happy with myself.

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David Wygant

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

yakub you will make a great coach one day because you are taking the time to learn the art of communication with everyone. As we always talked about...its not about getting laid at all...It is about creating an amazing life for yourself and by doing just that you will not only get laid you will love yourself and others.

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David Wygant

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

women are much better than men at flirting because they listen. the key to flirting is listening and most men do not get how simple that is....they spend the time speaking to a woman thinking about what to say next. off to yoga..watch the remarks i live in LA. mets are winning 5-0

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Yakub

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

Just wanted to share a quote with you all: " People used to look out on the playground and say that the boys were playing soccer and the girls were doing nothing. But the girls weren't doing nothing- they were talking. They were talking about the world to one another. And they became very expert about that in a way the boys did not." --Carol Gilligan

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David Wygant

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

one last thing....tonight i will be posting one of the funniest blogs i have ever written and it is not the dog farting one...sorry taleda that one will be up again real soon

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David Wygant

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

Yakub Great quote and oh so true...women were learning how to connect and we were busy bashing each other on the field.

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David Wygant

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

Jim You are welcome and thanks for posting back here i enjoy your comments!

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darkpoet

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

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Jim2

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

Jessica, Although I value your opinion I would have to disagree with you. Women are just "naturally" better at flirting starting at an early age. You always hear about "Daddy's little girl" wrapping him around her little finger! I feel that it naturally works all through a womans life. A sugestive look, some body language or perhaps a little fluttering of the eyes. But that's just my opinion. lol

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Jim2

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

Jessica, May I also add that as a man I have found that it was usually the woman that starts the game or perhap I just attract aggressive women. lol

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Jim2

Wednesday, September 26th, 2007

David, I agree with BobM 110%. You blog-site has been very enlightening in many ways. THANK YOU!

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Mary

Thursday, September 27th, 2007

Good grief... baby boys flirt as much as baby girls, and are legendarily devoted to their mothers (daddy's girl is the momma's boy equivalent). Boys playing soccer ARE showing off their masculinity, so the girls can sit around on the sidelines and observe, comment and fall for them, and offer up their mating strutt in appreciation of boys that have caught their eye. It's a two-way street, everyone. A flirt by a girl (verbal flirts, complimenting, hair flicking, touching, offering up visions of her bodily delights) may seem different than what a guy does (staring - gaping! - or running his eyes all over a girl, verbal chest thumping or sparing with nearby male competitors to appear more manly, standing around being the strong silent type or offering assistance to the girl) the behaviors are all to the same end. At my advanced single's age, I've observed no discrepancy between the genders in terms of relative flirting ability. So no excuses anyone. It's up to each person to flirt with flair, regardless of their gender.

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Taleda

Thursday, September 27th, 2007

I love to flirt. Harmless flirtation is fun for/with/to both parties. I find a sincere smile, a direct look into a man's eyes, will get me something back; typically the same thing. I may be going thru a very shy vulnerable stage right now, but I enjoy greeting people; hello, hi, how are you, shaking hands ... being nice to strangers is part of my business, but I'm just that way to begin with. I flirted with the dairy guy in Smith's grocery the other day ... I forgot my Smart Balance Spread and returned and he smiled at me and said, "Here comes trouble, are you creating mischief?" And I felt suddenly light and silly and laughed, saying, "As much as I am able!" He laughed and said, "My kind of woman." I was just about to zing him, when one of his helpers appeared with a load of milk, and not wanting to distract him, I retreated. But I think about those black eyes that sparkled, that smile showing full lips and straight white teeth under a thick black mustache, the whole of his physical appearance just made me tingle and our very brief fun dialogue. I feel the need to replinish my yogurt ....

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BobM

Thursday, September 27th, 2007

Taleda- It sounds like you'll be hitting the ground running (and panting) on 10/10!

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hunter

Saturday, September 29th, 2007

to Taleda, ......how interesting, I'll make a note of the, "here comes trouble,' comment....hhhhhhmmmmmhh

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hunter

Saturday, September 29th, 2007

to bobm, ..."there are just too many clueless men," 100% correct, sir......

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Jaime aka Jmeezay

Saturday, September 29th, 2007

Wait, what do you mean walking down memory lane at American U? I was a student there for 2 years before transferring to NYU. Its so weird how many people have a connection to my (sorta) alma mater! You're right; women are better flirts because we listen and I also think its because we tend to be more observant. Its important to be aware of the details when flirting with someone...

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David Wygant

Saturday, September 29th, 2007

Jaime When were you at AU?

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Taleda

Sunday, September 30th, 2007

Oh Hunter, its been soooo ummm long since I've read anything from you to me. S I G H .... Me Trouble? Oh yeah, can't you tell? Nuclear blast? Nah, oh wait, yeah ... but just on a select few: liars, cheaters, abusers, deceivers, dishonorable sorts. No excuses; what it is is what it is. Not to long ago there was a beautiful dialogue going on - if you remember - about Truth, Honesty and being Open .... I beleive it's pretty clear where I stand on these philosophies and I don't compromise - otherwise I'd still be with my douche bag of a husband - for he provided me with a place to live, utilities, clothing, food, AND medical & dental benefits. Starting the night of 10/10 I promise to be quite the handful for any Man up to the challenge of proper fur stroking and pussy petting, cuz leave us not forget I am a Leo. Oh gosh, I feel Dr. Bob getting ready to pounce .... What was it Mae West said: "When I'm good I'm very good, but when I'm bad I'm even better." Lord Tennyson says it best: "Man is the Hunter; woman is his game. The sleek and shining creatures of the chase, we hunt them for the beauty of their skins; they love us for it, and we ride them down.

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Jaime aka Jmeezay

Monday, October 1st, 2007

I'm a youngin' so I was there 1997-1999. Then I wised up and decided to go to a school that I liked. *LOL* AU is great for some majors, but the journalism department wasn't worth a damn to me. I also wasn't into the whole frat/sorority scene, which was HUGE there. So yeah. Did you attend or teach or what?

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David Wygant

Monday, October 1st, 2007

Jaimie I was a student there in the 80s.........It was fine for my major....Partying and playing:)

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darkenergy

Thursday, October 2nd, 2008

women all the way. for me (a man) they are the stronger sex, we (men) are the weakest. They have the power to play with our heads. Just look what happen every time a woman smile at a man. The man will automatically say: finally, someone that wants to sleep with me, and it goes behind her to do whatever she says

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