So I had some free time over the weekend at night.

After spending beautiful days with my daughter, that makes my heart go flutter. It makes me think about chasing birds and butterflies.

It allows me to feel open and full of life.

So, I decided to try my luck at Bumble.

To me, app dating is like playing the roulette wheel at Vegas.

To see, I choose them.

They choose me.

They double down on black.

I get to have red.

They pick me.

There are just so many variables.

But I have to tell you, the thing that kills it for me…

Are the mistakes women make on their online profiles.

There are women that just don’t put anything down at all.

And then when they contact me, they just write the word hi.

So much to go on.

Let’s see, you’ve got a bunch of pictures and they’re all artistic looking so I don’t really know exactly what you look like or what you like to do.

Then I take a look at the hi, and I try to read a profile and well, there’s no words at all.

So I just delete.

Like it or not, app dating and online dating seems to be what people are preferring nowadays.

The average man — not David Wygant of course — would rather have his teeth drilled with no Novocain than actually go and approach a woman out and about.

Most women — and please don’t deny this — when you see a man that you’re attracted to, you reach for your phone. Not to call somebody, but just to look at it so you don’t have to make eye contact with a total stranger that you have the hots for.

We all dread app dating.

And online dating.

And yet, it seems to be what people really want to do. But yet they’re not fully open to it.

Here’s what you’re telling the universe.

When you are not fully open to something and you’re writing lousy profiles, putting up pictures that don’t really look like you in the present moment, you’re basically telling the universe that you’re not serious about finding love.

And you see, that really doesn’t work.

What works is being creative, fun, and open minded online.

Putting up great pictures. There’s actually a sequence of pictures that every woman needs to understand in order to attract the right guy and not the wrong guy.

There are words that you need to put in your profile, whether it’s online dating or app dating, that will actually show you that a man’s relating to you in the current moment.

But just to put up pictures and put up things you don’t want or that you dislike? It’s so wrong.

So either you’re in, or you’re not.

And if you’re in, you might as well do it right because there are real gems out there.

Including myself, so if you live in the Los Angeles area and you’re between the ages of 37 and 52, I’m strongly interested in you.

All right, you see that? I had to put that plug in there for one reason.

Because being single means that you’re not afraid to put it out there in writing and pictures, in feelings and thoughts. There’s no reason to hide at all.

I strongly suggest you come on in and see what the world of app and online dating is about.