Attract Women, Don’t Chase Women

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By David Wygant July 23, 2012 335 Shares

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world.

Do you chase?

No, not with your tequila shots, with women.

Do you go to clubs to pick up women, even if you don’t like to dance?

Well, my friend, you’re doing it all wrong. You’re not having fun. You’re not doing what you love.

When you do what you love, you naturally express the best version of yourself. — Click to Tweet

And women want the best version of you.

Watch the video below for more:

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Kaveh

Monday, July 23rd, 2012

Great point!!

Mike

Monday, July 23rd, 2012

More jazz music in David Wygant videos! :p

KC1

Monday, July 23rd, 2012

Wow.I wasn't expecting a 90 second promo.I think this would have been better for the home page.

Bobby M

Monday, July 23rd, 2012

Chill son. It was a good point. and one that men need to be reminded of often.

Mike

Monday, July 23rd, 2012

Here is another angle, to break the chase mode, pretend your married, maybe to the one your even talking with...lol That way there is no selling, but just being yourself.

Nathalie

Monday, July 23rd, 2012

Hmmm great attitude! :-) This applies to men and women, in different ways of course, but basically just have fun and enjoy life...I do that everyday too.. :-) David's attire and look really go with the jazz music too hehe

Bob

Monday, July 23rd, 2012

Double your dating ad at the bottom. LOL Get rid of the goofy hat! Looks like a Charlie Sheen hat. Wear bowling shirts too to complete the look...

John

Monday, July 23rd, 2012

I can't view the video. Is it in a different format? I wanted to see David Sheen.

Pam

Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

I like the hat. A real hat like this one (not a baseball cap) on a guy is definitely sexy. You know, for the rest of this summer, and quite possibly the rest of the year, I am just going to have fun and forget about whether the venue is going to have single guys there. I am going to places and events that I am interested in and know I'll have a great time at. Fairs, outdoor concerts, golfing ranges, etc. It's time to start filling my calendar up.

Allen

Wednesday, July 25th, 2012

Hey Whats up Pam! Thanks for the tip... BTW quick question. Where would you say you'd rather be hanging out at? A day time restaurant+bar v/s outdoor flea market. Say its daytime and you just wanna chill. PS is there a better option?

Pam

Wednesday, July 25th, 2012

Hey Allen -- personally I like both, I guess it depends on where I am and what I'm in the mood for. Along Newbury Street in Boston and in nearby Newburyport there are tons of outdoor cafes and they're great for people watching. So if I wanted to chill on a hot day, I'd be at an outdoor cafe. However, I like flea and antique markets because it lends to more opportunities to speak to people and make comments about interesting items. Also a park where you can get a little group together to play frisbie is a good place, too.

Nathalie

Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

I know, I really think David works that fedora look! Its classy cool hehe I really feel in my heart this what we are here on earth for, to make the most of this life and enjoy it as much as possible..Single or in a a relationship, we have to love and enjoy being with ourselves first and foremost!

Pam

Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

Not to mention a cool hat makes for a good conversation piece...I would definitely compliment a guy in public on a hat like that. It's also a good way for a man to stand out among the crowd.

Nathalie

Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

Sounds fantastic Pam!!! Mee toooo!!! I love fairs, I have been looking to go to one maybe this weekend.. Tonight there is actually a Santana concert on the beach, I am going to see if I can go..and there tons of beach concerts I want to go to at least two hehe I felt so disappointed I didn't get to any outdoor concerts last year... My best friend wants to go to mini golf/ go karting...I love go karting, I have been itching to go since I did it for the first time last December :-) :-) Its so much fun, I am so girly hehe so I was so scared of putting my foot in one..

Pam

Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

Nathalie, that sounds like fun. Now that I'm learning to golf I want to visit some local golf ranges and play mini golf. I've never tried go karting, but it looks like fun. I'm going to look into a local venue for my group. I think my friends and I have been putting too much pressure on ourselves that every place we go to and everything we do HAS to be attended by single men, and then we get disappointed when none are there, when the whole point should just be to try some new things and places and have fun in the process. I'm working on letting go of that mentality...I tend to think the night was a failure if we didn't meet anybody. The main thing we've been noticing lately is everywhere we've gone has been full of only couples and sometimes families, no single guys...not even at the bars in Boston. I've been brainstorming on where we can go to find more men. I'm going to a classic car show this weekend. There were no takers from my group so I'm attending by myself.

Nathalie

Wednesday, July 25th, 2012

Pam that sounds really exciting about the classic car show, I am glad you are going alone to go and just enjoy yourself and then who knows? hehe I actually am a big fan of classic cars too, it unfortunate we don't have show like that anymore in NY,they had one such a long time ago in rockefeller center... Wow I thought Boston would have more singles venues..Have you and your girls every tried speed dating? It could be fun, I see lots of single ladies doing this here in NY (I've never tried it myself) but they seem to have a blast every time..They also have "mixers" its not speed dating but people all get together at a place for drinks or even on a boat.. But anyway just having fun and letting go of being attached to the outcome of meeting someone is such a relaxing and freeing way to be.. I really believe when we are not trying so hard or having expectations is when surprises happen! :-)

William T

Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

Well I wish I could say I'm kickin ass in the approach women department. But I'm gettin my butt kicked instead, I have to much approach anxiety lately. I can't even look at a woman anymore. I hope things turn around. And David can you give us your secret to look young? I'm guessing you have a pretty effective method. I could use some tips to shave off some years.

Intern Dan

Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

What is it about the approach that's got you anxious? Are you worried about rejection? Looking stupid? Something else?

John

Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

Finally got home to watch the video,,, I didn't think it was possible for David to post a video that was worse than the last video, but David was definitely up to the task. Well done.

Jeremiah

Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

can we get some cheese with johns wine?

William T

Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

Well, I am not sure what is wrong exactly. I guess I just feel uneasy when I do the approach. I feel that I will be judged by the other people around the woman. And when I feel I am being judged then I can not concentrate on the conversation and then I will look nervous and foolish around the lady.

Pam

Wednesday, July 25th, 2012

Nathalie - I tried speed dating many moons ago, and the men were just SO odd to me. One just sat there and said nothing when I sat down, so I had to get the ball rolling by introducing myself and asking him questions. I remember he told me he worked in a psychiatric hospital and God help me, but it was all I could do not to blurt out, "And are you one of the patients?" LMAO! Another guy latched onto me during the "intermission" portion of the evening and had no concept of personal space...he kept leaning veerrrry close into my face...yikes. If I took a step back, he took a step forward. The other thing I remember is that I had signed up for the 30-40 age range speed dating and many of the men were noticeably older than 40. I guess they really had no way of enforcing that, but it's pretty deceitful if you ask me (and you're not fooling anyone if you're clearly in your 50s or 60s and signing up for a 30-40 age range.)

Nathalie

Wednesday, July 25th, 2012

Pam LMAO eeeeeeekkkk!

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