Are You Naked Enough to Date?

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By David Wygant April 10, 2012 162 Shares

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Are you naked enough to date?

No, not physically. (Please put your clothes back on.)

Are you emotionally naked enough to find the perfect partner for you?

Too many people are so stuck in the past or in their parents’ old programming that they never find the person that’s right for them.

They’re not naked enough.

I was on a talk show recently and we discussed the importance of forgetting everything about your past when dating, and making sure that you’re putting in the internal work necessary to attract the best person for you.

Watch the clip here:

https://better.tv/view/relationships2-relationships-dating-coach-david-wygant

And then come back and tell me what you thought in the comments below.

Have a great, naked day!

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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mathew

Tuesday, April 10th, 2012

Those to people would have talked to you all day about dating if they could have.

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Collin

Tuesday, April 10th, 2012

Those people SHOULD have talked to David all day about dating. If Dale Earnhardt offered to teach you how to drive, you wouldn't kick him out after 5 minutes. Slightly off topic, does anyone have any tips on asking for a raise and being paid mileage? I was told at the start of my job that my barely-above-minimum wage pay was temporary, but I haven't heard anything since I started. I also drive a good bit most days, and I can't be spending $10/day on gas when I only make $50 or so.

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Brian

Tuesday, April 10th, 2012

Collin, About the driving, is it while you're on the job, or is it your commute to and from work? I believe you're required to be paid per mile (or given a company car to use), if you're driving while on the job. About the raise, no good tips, except that there's no harm in asking politely once-in-a-while. How long has it been since you started?

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Al E. Neuman

Wednesday, April 11th, 2012

Great points David, that really resonates with me. Pastor, resume shopping, and letting looks override my mind with an illusion of the woman i see rather than analyzing how she really makes me feel. Collin, The IRS annually establishes the reimbursement rate for mileage, i think it is 55.5 cents per mile in 2012. Salary negotiation, first do some research with salary.com and glassdoor.com to get a salary range for your position at your company and competitors in your geography. Your salary is a reflection of the value you provide to your employer rather than how much money you need to cover your personal expenses. Since you desire a higher salary you have to show you can deliver higher value to your employer. You can set goals with your boss (either weekly, quarterly,semi-annual or annual goals), develop a plan how to achieve those goals and agree on salary raises for meeting those goals and also salary raises for exceeding those goals.

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Cristi

Wednesday, April 11th, 2012

I just bought the book yesterday ,next week i am going to have it :D :D

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KC1

Wednesday, April 11th, 2012

Wow,that was short.I don't think that really resonated with the people at that show.They probably would have had the authors of "The Rules" or He's Just Not That Into You on longer.At least there are people out there that have and are been impacted by Naked!

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john

Wednesday, April 11th, 2012

@collin,, speaking of mileage,, the company I've worked for the last 12 years, is union, and our contract is up Friday. They want to take our hourly pay away, and our overtime away, and pay us mileage. That will cut our pay by over 2/3. They want to cut us from making 65-70K / year to around 25K/year, for the same job. Basically, they are just trying to force a strike, so they can kick the union out. So, I'm losing my job in the next few days or so. Anyone wanna buy a 2010 SS Camaro??? :(

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Jennifer

Sunday, April 15th, 2012

I loved the ideal being vulnerable and naked. I'm glad you are going out there to promote your book. Since reading the book and doing the exercises, I come to realize I didn't make myself available before. Plus, it allow me to explore other areas of my life. To look at areas of repeated bad patterns. I was happy I didn't spend to much time rehashing my last date and feel no ill will towards him. I went to the birthday party and had a wonderful time. I ran into one of my dancing partner. He is sweet and he loves to dance. I admit I have always had little crush on him and felt he was out of my league. After the party, he invited to go out for breakfast. I decided to go. He knew about the last guy I dated. He asked how I was doing. I said I was doing fine. We were both laughing and telling jokes. Then our conversation change. He looked at me and said how about giving me a chance. Wow! Now I'm remember the last podcast. I said Yes.

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