chasing womenLet’s first get the definition of what chump chasing is. I’m going to set a scenario of what a chump chaser will do, and see whether you fit into the scenario of being a ‘chump chaser’.

You meet a girl. You get her phone number. You text her, and you ask her out.  She ignores it. Then, you text back and forth a little bit more, and you ask her out again. She sets it up. You go to confirm, and she says “yes.” Then, at some point during the day you’re supposed to meet, she flakes on you.

You try to set up another date with her.  She, of course, feels bad.  She sets it up. Then she flakes on you, again. You try one more time because you figure, well why not?  Maybe she actually had things to do.  In fact, you’re buying into her bullshit.  So what do you do?  You ‘chump chase’ her.

You literally run after her.  You act as if you’re begging her to go out with you. Why do people chump chase?  For one, chump chasers are fantasy-driven.  This girl you’ve met, you imagine her to be this amazing fantasy.  You’re attracted to her.  She’s somebody that you find physically appealing, and it’s usually the type of woman that’s evaded you before.

You feel like you’re going to get her to change her mind. Here’s what you need to do instead. Follow this rule and you won’t go wrong; You ask her out.  She flakes on you once.  You set it up another time, and she doesn’t come through, you’re done.  When a girl flakes on you at the last minute, it means she’s not that excited about being with you.
She’s not thrilled.  She’s not feeling it.  She doesn’t want to give you a chance, and you’re like number five on her rotation. You look like a chump when you’re chasing. Follow this simple rule: Flakes once, try one more time, but stop the chasing.

You’ll meet a woman eventually who will be inspired, want to meet you, want to hang out with you. She will be excited to meet you, and you won’t be chasing her.

You need to have some self-respect, and start practicing abundance in your life.  There are plenty of women out there. It’s time for you to start feeling better about yourself.  Start realizing that you’re the gift, and that whatever woman you date will be lucky to have you. The more you chase, the more you reduce your perceived value. Don’t ‘chump chase.’  You can pursue, and you can show her you want her but don’t ‘chump chase’ her.

You’re better than that!