Anger Management By David Wygant

Are you an angry dater? Answer these questions:

• Are you someone (either a man or a woman) who seems to always attract the wrong people?
• Do you find yourself dating people that seem to always screw you over?
• Do you always seem to find the men or women who are emotionally unavailable yet you THINK that you are so emotionally available?
• Are you the person who gets a lot of first dates and not a lot of second dates, and you’re really angry and blame others for this problem?

It’s time you get out from in front of the computer screen, go into the bathroom, look in the mirror, and realize . . . that the only common denominator is YOU.

In order to be a successful dater, you must figure out what you are projecting to other people. If you’re angry, or you’ve been hurt and you haven’t started trusting people again, then you’re going to attract other people who don’t trust. Two people like that who meet are going to suffocate each other.

Life is not a sprint. It’s a marathon.

If you recently ended a relationship, stop trying to replace somebody. This will cause you to repeat the same mistakes over again.

Take the time to figure out what you did wrong in the relationship. Stop pointing your finger at somebody else and being a victim.

Start taking responsibility for your actions. It takes two to tango. It takes two people to paddle a canoe.

You need to look deep inside yourself and see what you need to heal before you go and try to have another relationship. The worst thing you can do after ending a relationship is to jump right into another one so you can make the same mistakes again.

Not only that, but remember that you attract in your life exactly what you put out. If you’re pissed off or angry or distrustful, you’re going to attract people just like you.

So if you desire to get off the dating treadmill, the first thing you need to do is work on yourself. Become the person you want to attract, and you will attract that person. That’s it.