I’m not talking about somebody who sits down in front of an easel, sits on a cliff overlooking a beach, and spends the day painting a landscape.

I’m not talking about somebody who walks around with their easel in the city and stands in front of a building and paints a picture.

I’m not even talking about somebody who sits in a park, since a park has a lot of picture painters, who paints portraits of people and couples.

I’m talking about a picture painter.

A picture painter is somebody who paints the entire picture of the relationship week by week.

Another term for it would be a romancer.picture-painter

What a picture painter does is give you the space and security to open up, as long as the picture painter is not painting in water colors or finger paints, that can make the paint drip, or invisible ink.

Picture painters are beautiful storytellers.

A friend of mine just started dating a picture painter.

He got on the phone with her and she started saying, you know we need to do this next week… And we’re going to have a lot of trouble because we’re both sensitive Cancers, so we might end up spending a lot of time at home. Cuddling, lying down, never needing to see anyone else.

She’s literally taking him step by step through the relationship, and everything she said has definitely come true.

Picture painters are not afraid and that’s what I love about a picture painter. They know that life is a blank canvas.

They have no apprehension about painting a beautiful picture.

It’s beautiful when people paint pictures like this because it means that they’re living their life with an open heart. They’re not afraid of telling somebody, I like you, I want to spend time with you.

Most of us are not picture painters. We are color by numbers people.

The boy says something so the girl goes to step one.

The girl says something, the boy goes to step one too.

The girl says something else, the boy goes to step two.

The boy says something and the girl goes to step three.

You remember color by numbers?

You follow one number after the other. One went to two, two went to three, three went to four. It was probably the way we learned how to be structured in our life and so afraid to do anything. So afraid to color or draw outside the lines.

Picture painters are never afraid to color or draw outside the lines.

They would go and they would draw in their favorite princess coloring book, or their favorite army man coloring book, and they would draw like crazy.

Picture painters are who you want to be with.

They’re the ones who believe in romance. They’re the ones who will stop their lives and make romance happen. Because they know that life is so much better when the picture that’s being painted has someone else next to them.

They still believe in romance.

They believe in couples.

They’re not color by numbers people who are so afraid, so afraid to let go. So afraid to picture paint a potential relationship, and instead have their relationships be color by numbers.

Be a picture painter in your life and see what beauty can unfold.