Dating Advice: The Art of Observation

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By David Wygant December 11, 2012 221 Shares

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Being a great boyfriend, husband, or lover is all about one thing…

Observation.

Women want and expect you to notice things about them.

Even when you’re single and “on the prowl”, the man that observes best wins.

So how do you do it?

How do you develop this powerful skill?

Watch the video as I explain the art of observation:

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Intern Dan

Tuesday, December 11th, 2012

That sculpture in the background looks weird with all those little kids. I wonder what it is?

Hans

Tuesday, December 11th, 2012

That's the Margaret McDonald statue at Lincoln's Inn Fields. She was a Mother Theresa type of woman who lived between 1870 and 1911, hence all the children surrounding her...

Bob

Tuesday, December 11th, 2012

I have never seen so many trash cans so close together, in a park. What the heck is up with that?

Julian

Tuesday, December 11th, 2012

Your comment about those trash cans is so fuckin funny. What IS up with that?

Bob

Wednesday, December 12th, 2012

I have that kind of wacky mind. I always notice and remark about things that are wastefull and out of place (of course I notice everything else as well). Since I owned businesses all my life, I was always looking to save money, so I could make more. I notice things like too many street lights, dumpsters too big, or being picked up too many times a week, to many chairs at a small resteraunt, to many employees working at one time, ill kept pools or spas, resort grounds maintenance, stuff like that. I always comment to my girlfriends oddities like that. It is something most other people never even consider when making observations. Girls usually get a kick out of my quirky humor, but seem to think it is "cute".

Bob

Tuesday, December 11th, 2012

David's friends webinar on being Bold, crashed that he sent out a promo to today. :( What the heck David? You need to give him some lessons on Webinars.

Colin

Wednesday, December 12th, 2012

I know it's sort of sketchy and can be used to manipulate, but I still recommend that guys learn cold reading. It teaches you to observe on a much deeper level than most people will even consider, which means you can build a stronger connection much faster.

Hans

Wednesday, December 12th, 2012

Here are my observations: this video must have been shot at around the end of September, I see hortensias which have stopped blooming, the leaves are also already turning brown. The guy walking by during the second pan is checking out the woman sitting on the bench to his right. The garbage bins are still empty, so it must be in the morning...

Socialkenny PUA

Wednesday, December 12th, 2012

Didn't watch the video yet, but the background looks like Brynat Park in downtown Manhattan. Or is it not even NYC?

Hans

Wednesday, December 12th, 2012

Lincoln's Inn Field in London/UK...

Socialkenny PUA

Wednesday, December 12th, 2012

Hans- Wow didn't even know that was the UK. Looks like NYC to me.

Hans

Wednesday, December 12th, 2012

Ha - the power of observation !

John

Wednesday, December 12th, 2012

The thing I observed in this video, is the old guy at 1:09 who is looking at David like " What the hell is this weirdo talking about? .. Stupid Americans, go back where you came from... And leave those poor Japanese people alone, and let them get on with their day, instead of making them hold your stupid camera." Pause the video right at 1:09 ... It's hysterical.

Tequila

Friday, December 14th, 2012

I absolutely love this!

Cesar

Sunday, December 16th, 2012

To me that man looked like George W bush.

Brian Nguyen

Tuesday, December 18th, 2012

Hi David! Long time purchaser of your products and blog reader, but first time comment poster. My question is this. How do I deal with a girl who likes to play games? A little 411: I've been talking to this girl for the past month and a half. We've been flirting like crazy over the phone, text, and Facebook. After the first time we spoke on the phone, she texted me a fake bill for phone sex that said "Your fee for last night's encounter with the legendary _______ is $5,000." Really flirty playful stuff. For God's sake, we sext when I'm at work. The level of blue balls I'm experiencing has gotta be a Guinness World Record. We also constantly joke about meeting 1 on 1. But then when I actually try to set up a date, she's busy all of a sudden. And I know that sometimes people can be really busy, especially around the Holidays. But good god, I know a girl will make time for you if she digs you, especially given the signals she's been given me. I'm pretty confident that I haven't been friend zoned because I don't befriend a girl unless I actually want to be her friend. And I know when a girl is not interested. So what's with all this teasing? And do I cut through it? Any and all input would be appreciated, especially from big D himself. Thanks guys!

Brian Nguyen

Tuesday, December 18th, 2012

I forgot to add. We've only met twice. And that was both in a group setting.

Brian Nguyen

Tuesday, December 18th, 2012

One last caveat: I know for a fact she's playing games. Last week, I didn't call or text for 3 days because I was busy prepping for a Christmas concert I was singing in. And after the fact, I noticed she hadn't called or texted either. After the concert I get a text from her saying "Why have u been ignoring me the past 3 days? :(" I called her out, "I've been pretty busy actually. And last time i checked, dating is a two way street :)" LAWYERED.

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Intern Dan

Hans

Bob

Julian

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Colin

Hans

Socialkenny PUA

Hans

Socialkenny PUA

Hans

John

Tequila

Cesar

Brian Nguyen

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