How to Be Present

In a weird way, and although I obviously realize that you are just kidding, not showing up works. It really does. Have you ever stood up a girl ? It drives them nuts and makes them almost obsess about you. How dare he do that to me ? Nobody ever did that to me. It creates ultimate tension.

Dear internet please give me the attention no one else will. With hate, John

Hey Adam Gray, yeah, I did get my dick wet the other day, when I had it in your mother's mouth. I had to smack the shit out of the dumb bitch though, because the filthy little whore don't know how to suck a dick without using her teeth! Then the dirty bitch tried to charge me a whole nickel! I gave her two pennies because I thought that was all she earned. Then I took a shit on the dirty bitch's face, because that's all your dirty whore of a mom is good for! Cocksucker.

"I find it beneficial to start talking to women by assuming they already have a boyfriend." Hey I like the idea. Thanks, Bobby.

Adam Gray, could you tone it down a tad ? You sound like a frustrated 15 year old, whom do you expect to take you serious ? Where does all your raging negativity come from ? Whomever you direct it at, it says more about you than about the other person...

That's as good as you can do? I need a new troll.

@Matt, good to hear. What helped you the most?

You may think that college age women are different, but I've got news for you. Women are all the same. Is it easier to hook up with a girl in college? Absolutely. Just grind on her at a fraternity party, make out with her, suggest getting out of there, then walk back to the dorm room. After college, people rarely live so close to where they party, and they have a lot more on their plate, so they don't go as wild. Working on your social skills is going to help you build attraction with all women, not just the ones you meet during a drunken, sweaty party. You probably don't even need to practice talking to strangers that much because you're meeting so many new people through friends. If you can connect with those girls, not only will it help your dating life, but it'll make you a lot better when you're just looking for a sweaty game of genital stabbing one night.