How I See the World

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By David Wygant November 19, 2012 135 Shares

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People always ask me how I developed the “gift of gab”.

Guys––especially the ones at my boot camps––want to know what to say to a woman in any situation.

And I tell them that it’s very simple.

Having the gift of gab is all about being present and making observations.

I show you how to do both in my latest video.

Watch it now:

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Bob

Monday, November 19th, 2012

Good grief David. Stop with all the crappie, BS videos, and go out and actually do some Damn approaching of beautiful women!! Do you even still remember how to create attraction in a woman? It is so much more than talking about everyday idle chit chat that you KEEP espousing. Everyone knows all this "howdy doody" type of conversation!! This does NOT lead into attracting a woman, getting her to like you and getting a phone number that she will actually answer and go out with you. Anyone can talk to you about the weather and architecture, but if you want to get a woman's phone number, create attraction, and get her to fall for you, you better have some better "game" than this BS...

Bob

Wednesday, November 21st, 2012

Hans, I have a girl (next door neighbor, who is 20 years younger than me) that I can "have" any time I want. She likes me and finds me very attractive (she says) She is my FWB and we like to spend time with each other here at my florida place. We go places together and do lots of things together. Kayak, movies, work out, walk the dog, etc, as friends, but with the understanding that we can both "date" others. She understands that I will be coming back and forth to FL and OK. She is cool with it, and it will last as long as it lasts. Not a bad set up for both of us, very convenient, but the neighbors wonder why she keeps coming and going from my house in her PJ's. :)

Kevin

Tuesday, November 20th, 2012

Well said Bob. I feel that David speaks to the guy who is totally paranoid to speak up to women, like a 16 year geeky kid who runs away from girls who wants to get laid. David's excuse is "Well I don't have to approach anymore" Well David, If you want to sell dating advice, then people need to see a demo!! You want our money right? Do you buy a car without test driving it? No. Do you marry a woman without fucking her first? No!! Then show people how to approach all these "beautiful women" you speak of! I know I haven't sen any around where I live. BTW, Jets are going to lose on Thursday. The owner should just get rid of the team, they haven't won a Super Bowl in 30 years and it'll take another 30 for them to even get to one :)

Hans

Wednesday, November 21st, 2012

Bob, Kevin, what was the last time you went out on a date with a girl ? I look at the 'Categories' column on the right, and everything you ever need to know is right there. If one of the thousands of blogs doesn't appeal to you, why bother ?

Kevin

Tuesday, November 20th, 2012

Hans, It's easy, I don't like anyone right away. I've spoken to plenty of hot girls and found most of them to be incredibly boring with no hobbies. It really depends on where I meet them, Walk into a clothing store in the mall and usually when you walk in she'll say "Hi Can I help you find something"? If she's cute I'll say ask her how she likes working there or ask her opinion about a shirt. Then basically just talk to her like she's already your friend, women don't care what you talk about, as long as you are talking. It's very simple and don't treat her any different from anyone else simply because she's cute.

Bob

Tuesday, November 20th, 2012

Well, Hans... That is why we are on this "dating" site! That is my whole point. That is David's job to tell you that here on the blog, which he is failing miserably lately. I haven't even bothered to leave relevant comments in the last couple months, because the blog has become so "off topic", almost bitter. David is going through "problems" and admits he has no interest in meeting anyone now, and it is apparent by his blog entries. I certainly would not try to create attraction by telling her what a nice fall day it was, that's for sure. I would notice something about her and complement her on it. Maybe she is wearing a nice pair of shoes or has a pretty dress on. Look her in the eyes, smile, lean away from her with confidant body language. That is how you let them know you have romantic interest in them, not talking about the leaves and trees. Otherwise they assume you are just passing time with idle chit chat about the weather or the houses on the block or what time it is.

Hans

Tuesday, November 20th, 2012

Bob, Kevin, I see your point. BUT: how do YOU approach a woman you like ? How do YOU come up with something to talk to her about ? Give the rest of us some examples on how you do it...

Jerdo

Tuesday, November 20th, 2012

you people seriously have no comprehension skills whatsoever. david is talking about how to observe the world around you and being the moment and being interesting so you can start that conversation. he aint saying do this and you'll get into girls pants.....jesus christ

Bob

Tuesday, November 20th, 2012

That is obvious Jerdo. But this is a dating site, not an "enlighten your senses" site. I think most people notice the obvious and know how to say "hi, isn't the weather nice today" or "hi, wow, what a cool building", or "hi doggy". Unless you walk around with your head up your ass, we don't need to be told to look at leaves, trees, and buildings to have something to talk about. How about some actual approach, and get a number, real, useful, videos for a change.

Colin

Tuesday, November 20th, 2012

David: "I observe you have fake tits and a nose job. Are they made out of the same material?" Tits: "Why are you talking to me?" David: "I now observe that you have no personality and are most likely quite shallow. I own my own business, I'm quite wealthy, and they made a movie about me. Will Smith was in it." Tits: "Do you want to put your penis in me right here, or should we go somewhere else?" David: "Let's take a cab back to my place."

Hans

Tuesday, November 20th, 2012

Extremely good and important blog. It is SO refreshing to come across someone who is really seeing things. And saying something about it that is energizing.

Stefan

Wednesday, November 21st, 2012

Great video, David! You brought it to the next level.

Kevin

Wednesday, November 21st, 2012

Look, I agree with Bob here, I can pull conversation out of my ass and that is what David is trying to teach you people.

John

Wednesday, November 21st, 2012

Kevin, I tried pulling conversation out of my ass, but it left my hands all stinky,, and then she just didn't want it. :-{

John

Wednesday, November 21st, 2012

"What a beautiful fall day, I wonder how many of these we are gonna get.". How many times has David told us not to open by talking about THE WEATHER? Just sayin'.

Kevin

Thursday, November 22nd, 2012

This is what I don't like about David, he contradicts himself. He tells you not to do one thing, then later he goes and does it or tells you an example of what to say which he told you earlier not to say, like what you just mentioned.

Mike

Friday, November 23rd, 2012

I think you guys are missing the point...While it's true that David mentioned a weather conversation as boring, one has to look into the environment that surrounds us. For example, you wouldn't walk into a food store and see a cute gal looking at some products, and start talking to her about the weather...lol When your outside and you notice things what is going on around you in that moment, then talking about the weather can be interesting and relevant to a person whom you don't know. As far as Bob's comment..."David is going through “problems” and admits he has no interest in meeting anyone now, and it is apparent by his blog entries." Yes, David has been going through something very difficult. He was married to a gal whom he considered to be the most unique compared to other women he had met. To make a long story short, they dated, married, had a kid, but it wasn't meant to be. Wouldn't you be in a funk? What is up with, "I haven’t even bothered to leave relevant comments in the last couple months, because the blog has become so “off topic”, almost bitter." I disagree that this blog has become way off topic and bitter. Would you not post any relevant comments if David was always married, staying faithful to his wife? When a lot of emotions is invested in a particular person that is more than FWB, it takes awhile to move on. David is coming out of that funk and he is meeting new people now...Eventually he'll discover an amazing woman that will make him happy! :)

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