Things to Say to a Girl

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By David Wygant August 10, 2012 173 Shares

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You see her standing there.

She just popped out of the Nike store in her yoga pants and you’ve got to open her.

Your mind cycles through the pick up lines you learned on the Interwebs…

…and it settles on the perfect one.

The perfect opener!

But is it perfect?

Watch as David explains everything you’ve always wanted to know about openers:

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Shogo (Coach)

Friday, August 10th, 2012

What opener would you guys use to pick up the classy broad on the left?

Adam Gray

Wednesday, August 15th, 2012

@ Shogo. I would look directly into her eyes and tell her how fantastic her breasts look. I'm always honest with whatever I say. If she gave me a smile, I'd ask if I could have a feel. That's just me though. The direct and honest approach as always worked for me. People would be surprised with what they can get when the speak their mind and ASK!!!

Manny

Friday, August 10th, 2012

My first thought was to say to the friend holding the busty one: "Careful not to shake her too much... She'll be all fizz and nothing to drink after." Maybe a wink... hmmm man that's almost the same as Collin's opener. There's got to be an opener out there that doesn't compare the woman to a car or a bottle of beer. Maybe perhaps scream "OH MY GOD" shooting both hands in the air, screaming over to them like a little school girl, then hugging them as if we were long lost BFFs... no one will ever try that not even me. If all else fails I would say, "Hi my name is Manny. How about you? What do you do?" That's my default opener that I use the most in the bar since I'm not usually in the present in those places. It works. (I presume these two women are in either a party or a bar.)

JR

Friday, August 10th, 2012

Sunglasses at night huh? You got into a fight and you're hiding a black eye aren't you?

Collin

Friday, August 10th, 2012

"Hey, I'm sorry to hear about your car wreck." "What?" "Well, it looks like your airbags are deployed, so I assumed you had been in a car wreck. You never can trust those women drivers."

Collin

Friday, August 10th, 2012

True. I think it would only work on a girl whose tits were both humongous and very exposed as an obvious ploy to attract male attention. You'd also have to make sure it didn't sound canned. Most importantly though, you have to be the kind of person who gets away with being a lovable douche. There's just some people who can't say certain things because it doesn't line up with who they are as a person. If you aren't naturally kind of cocky and love to joke around, you can't pretend to be that guy in order to pick up women.

Intern Dan

Friday, August 10th, 2012

I think it could work too. It's ballsy and cheeky without coming off as leering.

Collin

Friday, August 10th, 2012

You know, if I could get her to laugh with that comment, I think it might actually work. It's at least minimally creative and completely unexpected. Now to just find a girl with massive tits to try it on...

John

Friday, August 10th, 2012

I usually just give the creepy man stare, and drool for a while, and watch while she is speeding away, calling the police. :(

Intern Dan

Friday, August 10th, 2012

HAHA! Nice!

Brian

Friday, August 10th, 2012

random stupid comment... an "opener" maybe lol.... i love how on the last few videos before you click play, there is a picture of sexy women to draw you in and then there's David... I've never noticed that with any other youtube video's before, Brilliance. I dig it.

Farley

Friday, August 10th, 2012

Been a while since I commented on the blogs, but I'm back :). The best openers are those in the moment indeed. It takes so much pressure off of me and conversations flow effortlessly. If magic pills did exist, they would be very expensive and only last for so long. Before you know it, your a drug addict. Way easier to just not care about the other persons response and just ride the flow. Have a great weekend guys.

Mike

Friday, August 10th, 2012

What is easier? Learning a pickup line, then learning about 5 different answers depending how she reacts. Or an observation in the moment and listen to what she says? I suggest some of you guys test it. Go to one of your favorite places, let's say a fast food place. And let's say, she tells you they are out of something, what else do you want she will ask you, and you tell her the thing they are out of it or something other thing that is not relevant, she will either remain silent or correct you. I tried that and she was silent with a blank stare and then the moment I told her an alternative she smiled and said, "ok"...lol

John

Friday, August 10th, 2012

Here's a question.. What did I do to p/o David Wygant? It can't be criticizing his videos / blogs.. I've always done that. It can't be disagreeing with him from time to time. He likes debates. It can't be the occasional blog fight, because blog fights are harmless, drive up the comment count, and sparks debate, plus, sometimes they are damn funny. And it can't be my occasional foul language. That can't shake the author of the infamous "Fuckation" blog. Who doesn't love the occasional Tuna and Whole foods crack? And car talk is just awesome. So, the question is,, what did John do to P/O Dave? (i might start a blog about it. I'll have to reserve Whyisdavepissed.com )

Ben Hunt

Friday, August 10th, 2012

He might just be busy...?

John

Saturday, August 11th, 2012

Manny,, actually, I was just trying to drive him out of his hole so I could trash talk before the Bengals / Jets game.. lol.

Manny

Friday, August 10th, 2012

John, I wonder how you're going to be when you're finally in that relationship you want considering your concern for DW's lack of replies. ;-) It's all the same really. He doesn't ever reply to my questions on the blog so I'm kind of used to it. Sometimes I feel that in some subtle way I feel that I'm the target of the things that he disparages... lol

JR

Friday, August 10th, 2012

John, dude, you're over analyzing, he has a life and he probably has a ton of shit going on, chill out.

John

Friday, August 10th, 2012

Haha, maybe. But, he has ignored my questions and my football.smack talk, while still answering other commenters, and that just isn't like him. (plus, why is Dave pissed is a fun game.. lol. )

John

Friday, August 10th, 2012

What?? THIS IS BULL CRAP!!! The Jets / Bengals game is BLACKED OUT because it isn't a sellout. Damn you NFL!!! This is BULL. another question,, WHY THE HELL AM I NOT DOWN THERE?? Oh, yeah, TICKET PRICES ARE OUTRAGEOUS! maybe THAT has something to do with it not selling out! DAMMMMIT!!!

John

Friday, August 10th, 2012

Wow, 17-6 cincinnati with 3:30 left. If anyone can find a way to lose this, it's the Bengals.. Lol.

John

Friday, August 10th, 2012

Anyway,, on today's video... Great video. Great concept. I get it. Honestly I get it. But... When the time comes, I never come up with an observation to make a comment about. If I was where David is in this video, I would never even notice the lights out on the NIKE sign. I never would have even thought about that. I get nervous, I get in my head, and I go blank.

Ben Hunt

Saturday, August 11th, 2012

John, have you done the exercise when you go out and just write down what your observing and then what you would say in that situation? Once you can do that, then it's just about having the courage to push yourself outside of you comfort zone, approach the woman and say what you observed. Try and focus on just being in the moment and making observations and hopefully the conversation should flow easier from there!

John

Friday, August 10th, 2012

Holy crap, they pulled out a win. Lots of injuries though. ( had to follow the game online, damn you blackout. ) Of course, preseason doesn't really mean anything. I can't wait for the season opener. I wonder what D.W. thought of Tebow, and his Jet's performance....

John

Saturday, August 11th, 2012

This blog is SO boring.. I'm ready to go back to Car Talk.

Nathalie

Saturday, August 11th, 2012

This got me thinking about "openers".. And just remembered a time when I lived abroad, a guy walked by me we made eye contact and I smiled at him..He walked back and caught up to me and said he thought he knew me lol and then he said "Do you know what time it is?" As I was about to reach for my phone to see the time, he said " Its time to have coffee" LOL I lliked it, it felt intriguing and different..

MichaelCee

Sunday, August 12th, 2012

John said: Here’s a question.. What did I do to p/o David Wygant? A. You're just a d*ck.

Kevin

Monday, August 13th, 2012

What's the matter? Can't spell dick?

John

Sunday, August 12th, 2012

Yeah, I care about the opinion of a little 13 y/o snotnosed little prick ,, themook13@***.com

Adam Gray

Wednesday, August 15th, 2012

By the way. If anyone on here can help me, today is my first time on the blog. Can anyone on here tell me how I can put my picture on here please?

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Shogo (Coach)

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