How To Overcome Approach Fear When Meeting and Picking Up Women

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By David Wygant March 25, 2012 423 Shares

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How many of you are afraid when approaching people?

I’m not even talking about potential mates…

…just people in general.

Watch this quick video, drop your fears, and get juiced about meeting people and having fun!

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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John

Sunday, March 25th, 2012

Well damn Dave,, Why didn't you go and approach the blonde who was singing, on camera, and CLOSE HER,, and show us all how it's done?? Even, better yet,, why didn't you send a short, old, ugly guy over there, and we could watch him CLOSE HER,, and show us all, it CAN be done? It's easy to say " hi, how's your afternoon? " to a girl on the street. It's another thing to CLOSE HER.

Bobby

Sunday, March 25th, 2012

No such thing as "closing" a girl John. When youre putting that much energy on getting something from her you're not going to be natural and attract her. If u start talking to her and it turns out you have chemistry then tell her you think so, and just ask her out. Getting numbers is the easiest part anyway.

mathew

Sunday, March 25th, 2012

Good news David. I am starting to get what you are saying. I have been going out and have fun. I have been meeting a lot of women. At the bars when I have gone out, woman have been buying me drinks because the want to chat to me some more and have a good time. I am connecting with them. I am being that guy gets them, understands them and just have fun at them same time.

Reid Coray Mitchell

Sunday, March 25th, 2012

Close her? Women aren't doors here. For one, you haven't even talked to the women so how do you know you want to close her, you're just physically attracted to her. You two could share no chemistry at all, so don't pretend you like her cause you don't know her. Like David always says "you're the gift", so quit objectifying her. David explains things very well, but there is no magic pill; get out there and give it a shot instead of relying on a video that is a 'tell-all'. You'll memorize everything from that video, approach her, and be so stuck inside your head you won't hear a thing she says. David, you know I'm a proponent of your teachings so keep up the great work. Reid Coray Mitchell, Canada

john

Sunday, March 25th, 2012

@bobby,, lol,, I know.. I was just giving Dave shit. :)

john

Monday, March 26th, 2012

Hey,, whatever happened to Bob? Haven't seen him around in a while.

Mike

Monday, March 26th, 2012

That gal looks like Cameron Diaz...lol I don't quite understand why only one guy stopped to watch her sing. She has talent! Most likely there were some who walked by that loved her singing. I agree, it's about having fun, she was having fun singing regardless if one or thousands were watching watching her sing. In fact, if she was taking breaks it would have been a great opportunity to talk to her!

Intern Dan

Monday, March 26th, 2012

This video makes me want to karaoke. "It's cold and lonely in the deep dark night (In the deep dark night) and I can see paradise by the dashboard light!"

Bobby

Monday, March 26th, 2012

Gotcha John. Maybe Bob is taking a break talking shit about people on the internet and is doing it in real life. Also where is the always charismatic Tom? Ha Ha..

Jeremy

Monday, March 26th, 2012

This is so true. We tend to think approaching women is scary because we make it all about them, give them all the power. Power they don't deserve, BTW. If you like yourself and love life, women will automatically love you.

Bob

Monday, March 26th, 2012

Damn, Bobby....That hurts my feelings. If you think I have any, that is. ;) No I am to busy with real life right now and practicing some of David's preachings. Some of it works, some of it is to "generic", and designed more for just "coming out of your shell". I am actually doing very well in the ladies dept., but have got so damn picky (selective might be a better word) that it will be amazing if I find what I am looking for until I get to a much larger pool of women. Looking forward to Florida lifestyle and my new life and home there. In fact, I have a serious "looker" coming to see my ranch tomorrow. I hope it works for them, so I can get the hell to the beach, where I really want to be. Come on, I'm not that bad, just a realist and critic of people who pray on others to make money by advice. Not just David, but all the "coaches", lifestyle and others as well.

john

Monday, March 26th, 2012

BOB,, ok. Was just wondering what you've been up to. Things have been quiet around here,, lol.

cristi

Tuesday, March 27th, 2012

great video, this girl very inspiring,makes me more motivated to be how i wanna be

bob

Tuesday, March 27th, 2012

The girl is trying to get noticed by some record producer, and become famous. Plane and simple. If you wanna be famous, you sure as hell can't be shy...

Collin

Tuesday, March 27th, 2012

I feel like there are better ways to work your way up in the music scene, but you've got to at least admire her girl-balls.

Bobby

Tuesday, March 27th, 2012

Hah Ok Bob maybe I am being judgmental. But I'm not sure if you are categorizing David as "preying on others". His marketing gimmicks are kind of cheesy but his message seems more authentic than most.

bob

Tuesday, March 27th, 2012

Perhaps that was the wrong word Bobby. But, anyone who is totally reliant on making a living from their written and verbal "messages", with very little overhead (I would assume over 90% profit margin, as their is no actual physical product, only accounting needs) and who is totally reliant on their "prey/customers" to believe in them, by making a substantial living from their beliefs, experience, writings,product effectiveness, and advertising, is what I would consider preying on them, and hoping their salesmanship, and experience will bring them profit and substantial substanance. Any such method of making a living should always be scrutinized and wariness warrranted by the consumer.

mathew

Wednesday, March 28th, 2012

So what you are saying in this video. A good mind set to have is the conversation skills I have been working on is not for picking up but just for having fun. From having that fun I will be able to meet people and pick up. Is that the way to look at it?

Tedel

Wednesday, April 11th, 2012

...moreover, she's pretty too!

Nick

Thursday, May 17th, 2012

I just finished a college class with a Woman, not a girl mind you a WOMAN. Both in our 40s probably. I had been in a relationship for a while and now looking again. She looked young and hot for 40.. So as class went on I started to notice her more and more. Not wanting to be to much of a puppy dog, I casualy spoke to her a couple times after class. Notice how I said "I" . I talked to her . I went after what i wanted. I just didnt wait and do nothing and magicaly hope for her to fall in my lap. We had nice , but short convos. And I seemed like I could really like this person, great personality, smart and nice looking. It also seemed in our communication she was open and Approachable . I was sure I could get the number. So we briefly talked about what just happened in class and I said this " We didnt get a lot of time to talk during the semester. Or get to know each other more, I'd love to have a cup of coffee or a drink with you sometime" . Now heres the thing , in Class she mentioned she had Kids , somewhat older. I didnt care . So point is She told me she is dating someone And they have kids together; Probably meaning its a vairly commited relatnship . Of course I checked for the ring , she didnt have one so I assumed she was single. But I didnt let anything scare me. I didnt let anything stop me [. Because if I did I might not have been blessed with a great girl. And now what if this guy screws up, I made a connection. Maybe I'll benefit from my effort, or maybe not. But who cares Just Like Nike, "JUST DO IT"

Bob

Thursday, May 17th, 2012

Nick Great job. Yes, the "fruits of your labors" are not always immediate, and sometimes never germinate. However, what harm does it to speak a few words, sit back and wait, and see if the see does grow. You have my admiration. Keep it up. She will go home, and when she is arguin with her FWB, she might think about the nice guy from class, and that will be your "in". Good Luck!

How To Overcome Approach Fear When Meeting and Picking Up Women

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