Ask David Wygant ANYTHING.

sandy h

Friday, February 17th, 2012

i have one...why does a man have to lie to get what he wants? then keeps coming around and saying he did not lie when he is still seeing a another woman? I work with women and we are starting to believe that men lie...but i feel not all men are like that? answer when i get home have to go to work...

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sandy h

Friday, February 17th, 2012

if u do not believe it is true there is more to this than what i am willing to type...but me myself and i are looking around...

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James

Friday, February 17th, 2012

So I've been reading a number of different sites and books, and particularly on the PUA type sites they obsess about alpha and beta. Your approach is a bit different so I'm curious on your take on the most common questions you probably get emailed about from guys, "how do I get my girl back?" (and in this case I'm going to assume it was a girl you genuinely connected with and had a real relationship with and not something where the feelings were one sided in which case the advice would be very different) The PUA sites tend to say don't bother, chasing after her will make you look weak and ruin what little chance you have of actually pulling this off and it ruins the 'abundance mindset' of the alpha male. The advice is just to go and see other women to move on, and potentially make the 1st girl jealous and miss you. I can see how this protects you and your public image somewhat, but fail to see anything alpha, or otherwise superior, in giving up when you face conflict, just letting some other guy take your girl, or even just letting her walk out of your life. I'm curious to know what goes through your mind when you read these types of messages and how you sort through these emails and respond to them. Also, on topic, looking at the categories I don't see one on dealing with conflict (short of an actual breakup), thinking that might be a good topic to link to and the recent podcast could fit in there nicely.

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James

Friday, February 17th, 2012

sandy, not all men lie and I wouldn't project your past experiences onto the new men you meet (easier said than done, if you don't believe me see my post back in the stalker thread from a wek or two ago, I'm guilty of this to some extent in a different way). If you act distrustful from the go they will probably resent you for it and actually be more likely to lie, kind of a self fullfilling prophecy. If you feel everyone is lying to you I'd take a look at what you might be doing wrong since you're the common element to all of the scenarios. Not saying it's on you necessarily, but the more of these stories that add up, the more likely it becomes that you are doing something wrong.

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Florin G.

Friday, February 17th, 2012

It's really impressive your Q&A session. God bless you David for giving your time to respond people's questions:)

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Tim

Friday, February 17th, 2012

Hey david, What is the best way to get over a break up? What can I do everyday in order to really open up to everybody, and get out of my head? And what is the absolute best piece of advice you can give somebody who has been shy their whole life? Give me some exercises to do to become that confident sexy man. Thanks a lot for everything you do man. tim

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Frank

Friday, February 17th, 2012

Hi David, Glasses look great! I love the Q & A format and found it very helpful. Just got "Naked"....planning to read it this weekend. Thanks for the inspiration...now I need to act! Frank

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habib

Friday, February 17th, 2012

Hi David.. i have been reading your blogs for a long time it has helped me i guess however i want to ask you a question.. how do you look at a girl without looking to pervey as i get that alot or how do i look at a girl because nowadays you look at them for more then 2 seconds and smile and they assume u do that to all the girls when you approach they just say go away and i always approach within a few seconds.. whats going on David how do i give that look which dont look pervey u know what i mean..

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john

Friday, February 17th, 2012

I have an important question for David Wygant... Hey Dave,, How's the tuna??? :)

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Collin

Friday, February 17th, 2012

There was a real life girl involved, but technically I failed the challenge.

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Collin

Friday, February 17th, 2012

As far as questions for David go, I'm likely going to be coming to visit friends in LA in a couple months. Would you be up for grabbing lunch if I did?

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Tony K

Friday, February 17th, 2012

Hey David!! Loved the whole Q&A session!! If you would really like me to be honest about how those glasses look, I would say it's quite reminiscent to wood shop safety glasses and the red plaid shirt kinda helps reinforce that image. My question is to you: Do players generally have underlying confidence or self-esteem issues?

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David Wygant

Friday, February 17th, 2012

John Do you want me to answer that next week:)

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David Wygant

Friday, February 17th, 2012

Tony Good question that may be just perfect for next weeks video!

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David Wygant

Friday, February 17th, 2012

Collin You buying:)

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Tony K

Friday, February 17th, 2012

By the way, I "mastur" my "domain." I was one day close to beating the Friday challenge, but I just starting having urges to have sex with every girl I see. What's worse was, I started dreaming about sex more often.

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David Wygant

Friday, February 17th, 2012

James Good question.....Obi lets put this one in the que. You know how ridiculous I think PUA stuff is.

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David Wygant

Friday, February 17th, 2012

Tony Use that energy to approach and conquer:)

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Desiree

Friday, February 17th, 2012

David, Thank you, bless you for giving of your time and talent to the new Friday Q and A blog! I'll be posting a question for next week's blog on Twitter. By the way, I think that the glasses are sexy, and make you look even more sexy and sophisticated! And I like your shirt; not every man can rock red plaid! You make it work. Dez

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Youtube Troll

Friday, February 17th, 2012

Are you still wearing a Toupée?

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Collin

Friday, February 17th, 2012

@David, As long as it's not sushi, I think we've got a deal.

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Kevin

Friday, February 17th, 2012

Sandy H, Why do men lie to get what they want? Simple, we just tell people what they want to hear so they will give us what we want. If the man gets caught lying, he will lie and say he didn't lie because men want to avoid confrontation, Men don't like arguments.

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sandy h

Friday, February 17th, 2012

Kevin It goes both ways I wonder how many women have lied also...Actually I have no stones to throw I told some in my lifetime.. When I first wake up those boxing gloves come on and here I go again in my head...I love that one in Naked...For I know one thing i was basically doing the same thing.. Kevin thanks again for the advice...

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