Meet Women: With Or Without A Wingman?
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I get asked this question so many times: Is it better to run with a wing?
Every time someone asks me this, all I can picture is this giant chicken wing dripping with buffalo sauce running around next to them. I picture them constantly having to clean off their shoes from all the buffalo sauce that is dripping off their wing.
So is it better to run with a wing or to run by yourself? The answer is that it is always better to run by yourself.
If you’re by yourself, then it’s like you are the complete master of every conversation. If you run with a wing, then all of a sudden you are opening up your conversations to someone else.
That someone else will jump in your conversations and might even end up dominating the conversation. Even worse, they might end up turning off the very person you are trying to intrigue because they aren’t listening.
If you are having a great conversation with a woman, your wing might end up feeling neglected and want to leave. I’ve seen women wings do that all the time. A woman will having a great time talking to a guy in a bar, and the woman wing will get annoyed and start tugging on the woman telling her that they need to go somewhere else.
I’ve seen so many wing scenarios go badly. So it’s much better to go alone.
Going alone also forces you to learn to speak with people when you are alone. You don’t want to just stand in the corner by yourself. Going it alone forces you to go out there and communicate with people.
So going alone is something all of you need to do. It’s something I personally really enjoy. My best conversations always happen when I go out alone.
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