All women want to have sex with the man they’ve read about in the romance novels and see on the big screen. Create that Hugh Grant moment. Women are turned on by powerful, confident, self-assured men.

If you want to learn about women, instead of looking at pictures on an online dating site and mass emailing them with some generic email, why don’t you read through what turns them on? If you actually spent time reading what turns them on, you would actually become that man. Not one woman online is looking for a soft, wimpy, wussy man.

They are looking for a man that creates passion and desire in them. So how does a guy do this? And can any guy do this?

The answer is yes, if you actually take the time to understand women and take the time to connect with them. When a guy is confident and is able to stimulate a woman’s mind and connect with her, he’ll be in total control and she’ll be totally turned on by him.

So what is the key to getting a woman totally connected and turned on to you? . . . it’s to open your ears and listen!


Most men don’t listen. Most men buy into all the garbage that’s available on the internet of the so-called “pick up strategies” and think there’s some magic thing to say in every situation to meet a woman.

You know what the magic thing to say is? Sometimes nothing.

Sometimes when you listen to a woman carefully, and when I say carefully I mean listening to what she has to say and reacting to what she has to say. Because when you listen to what she has to say, she will open up to you and become more attracted to you as the minutes pass.

She doesn’t want to hear about the amount of money you make, or the new car you bought, or how good you are at XBox. All she wants you to do is listen and connect with her mind.

If you connect with her mind, she will give you her body. The best sex you’ll ever have is not when you’ve convinced her to have sex with you, it’s when you’ve connected with her mind and it’s her idea. If the sex is her idea, she’ll give you the best sex you’ve had in months.

So how do you turn her on? Well, don’t be a wimp and ask her to hang out with you. Tell her where to meet you . . . and make it somewhere interesting.

Don’t just make a boring reservation at a restaurant. Challenge her to a game of pool – the winner get’s a great massage. Challenge her . . . be gutsy.

Most men are so soft on this issue, and that’s why they get flaked on over and over again. It happens because they did not take control. Women will drop hints over and over again so you take control.

When they drop hints, you need to be the alpha male. You have to have the balls to ask her what she’s really thinking. You can’t play it safe. Most women don’t get turned on mentally or physically by safe.

They want sex as much, if not more, than you. It’s time you learned how to be the alpha male so you can be enjoying real connections with women every single day.