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Are you willing to put your life on the line today?
Ok maybe not that drastic but today I have a challenge for you.
Are you ready to for an early Christmas present from yours truly?
Intrigued?
Then kick back watch and see what I am going to give you.
One last thing.
All you women who just watched the video.
Reverse the advice and make it work for you!!!
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Okay how daring am I well this is too much to write on face book but here it goes. One day my daughter and I were coming out from the grocery store in our hometown. It was hot that day now I wear sports bras and there were these guys standing there and I decided to take off my shirt and when I went to pull out of the parking you ought to seen the face of the guy driving the van. Well there was this woman sitting next to him and she gave me a not so good look I looked back at her as though to say what u looking at (not so good word). There are times if I get a notion I might pump my breast up at a passing vehicles but I was told that could mean hard flirting. luv n hugs c u on face book.
David, I like your pep talk and your encouragement of men to get out there, face their fears, and just talk to women! Great work!
But, of course, I need to be Devil's Advocate (it's in my blood!) 10 a day??? Isn't that a bit much? Women want men with confidence, but not a player! We need to feel special... that you picked us out of a crowd.
Now, I get it that some people need practice, so perhaps if the goal is just to become confident about talking to women, then go for it, but I'd suggest using those confidence skills on talking to all people, not just women you're attracted to. Be friendly and talk to 10 people a day. Save the "pick up" for the one you are most attracted to... otherwise your reputation may go from being a loser of one type to a loser of another type...
Yvette,
I agree,10 women a day is basically an all day project,But I think David is trying to see who needs it more...does talking to the 20th person seem like he's talking the first one? Or has he greatly improved on the 20th? But the key word here is "talk" to women, not get 20 phone numbers from women.
Yvette,
I'm going to disagree with you on the player part.
If a guy approaches 10 women he finds attractive, flirts with them and they end up feeling attracted towards him, he is not a player.
It's when he becomes dishonest about his actions, making you believe you are his number one woman, meanwhile he parties with other women...then in my opinion is he a player.
Women flirt with men all the time. Does it make them playettes?
Here is the second one this happened years ago: I was walking down the street in Nashville and went over one of the vents that was blowing air up and I was wearing a skirt at the time there was some guys standing on the other side of the street as I walked across it my skirt went up and instead of being embarrassed about I did a Marylin Monroe in front of them and walked off the vent and said to them no more Marylin Monroe's for you today and they cheered on for me too. But I walked away.
OK, maybe I was being too hard on saying guys that talked to 10 girls they were attracted to each day would be considered "players." And it may be even more insulting to say they may be considered "desperate" but... personally, I know if I saw a guy talking to 10 attractive girls a day in attempts to get a date, I'd be turned off. And I'd think of his "line" as insincere if he were using it on 10 women a day.
I really think the key here is to be friendly with everyone. It's not nearly as difficult to talk to someone you're attracted to if you're not ONLY talking to her because you're attracted to her. Plus, it's kind of insulting to all the people you're NOT attracted to if you are ignoring them in favor of the pretty girl.
I still vote for talking to 10 people a day (regardless of whether or not you're attracted to them) to build your confidence and social skills. Don't try corny pick-up lines. Just be friendly to everyone. Say something personal and friendly so it doesn't sound like some standard pick up.. For example, comment on the logo on their T-shirt or tell them how cute their dog is or find something you might have in common with them and talk to them about it. If you get a friendly smile back, introduce yourself. If you have something in common, and you want to talk more, suggest getting together for coffee.. If you do this often enough, even with people you aren't attracted to, it will be a lot easier to do with people you ARE attracted to.
Yvette,
I agree with u, but attraction is the important factor for starting conversation and keep on talking...It feels real bored to talk to someone how is not attracted to u..
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