It is your energy that dictates how someone feels around you, and how someone feels about you.

Have you ever walked up to someone and you’re just so nervous? You are so nervous that you are squeezing your ass together like you are holding in your own shit?

So when you do walk over so scared like that and say what you think is the right thing, what happens? You are going to scare off the person you are approaching.

You could say something to a woman as simple as “Nice dog!” If you are nervous when you say it, though, you are going to make that woman (and her dog) nervous.

People’s reactions to you are all about you. They are all about your body language. They are all about your attitude, your energy and what you convey.

The next time you are about to walk up to someone, ask yourself this question: Am I relaxed? If you are not relaxed, then hold off on walking up to them. Breathe deeply. Take a minute to calm yourself down.

Don’t go up to that person until you have calmed down your energy. Otherwise, when people run away from you, it will be because you walked up to them looking like you are holding in your own shit and it scared the shit out of them.

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