I am going to say something right now that has literally been driving me crazy.

You all know how I feel about the amount of people who are staring down at their phones 24/7.

As I’m driving and dictating this, a man is walking with his girlfriend and a dog. He’s staring down at his phone with his crooked neck hanging down like he’s about to give the phone a blow job.

I call it blow job neck.

Anyway, do you want to know the real reason why people are not really connecting and meeting anymore?

When you’re staring at your phone, you’re staring at energy from other people’s Facebook posts.

Texts.

E-mails.

Instagram.

Snapchat.

What the phone is doing is taking you away from the present life that you’re actually living.

So your mind is cluttered with other people’s crap.

Your mind is cluttered with other people’s energy. So when you’re out and about, you’re about as sexy as that phone.

There’s nothing sexy about a phone at all.

And that’s when I look around. I can see women dressed in Lulu Lemon. I can see women dressed in beautiful party dresses. I can see guys totally duded up and I see zero sexual energy out in this world now-a-days because we are totally connected to our devices and not to the world around us.

The world around us is sexy.

As I’m driving today, it’s one of those ridiculously warm November days. The mountains look beautiful, almost sexy in the light.

I’m parked next to a red Porsche with red rims. Haven’t seen that combination. That’s hot to me. That’s sexy.

A girl is walking her dog. She’s beautiful. I love the way she’s moving, watching her hips move and everything else.

That’s sexy. So how are you going to get turned on and how are you going to turn other people on if the world around you is always being ignored for the phone gripped around your hand?

There’s no way in the world you’re going to be able to turn people on and connect, and that’s what it’s all about. It’s connecting, being turned on, having moments. Having moments of really connecting with people.

That’s sexy. Having moments of really connecting. But we don’t have those moments anymore because we’re constantly looking at Tinder and Bumble and Match and texts.

And Facebook. How can you feel sexy when you’re staring at a device made by a bunch of nerds in Cupertino?

No offense, nerds. I think your devices are cool, but I’m doing this for a point. Turn your sex life back on, folks. Turn on your sex life and watch what happens to everything that’s around you. Turn on your sex life.

Otherwise, you’re going to keep typing and texting and doing all of the things that you complain about and drive you nuts and all you need to do is turn on your damn sex life when you’re out and about. It’s that simple.

We’ve become not-sexy, and that’s why people just don’t even bother connecting because sex is energy you get in your head. And if you think that if you turn on your sex life, men are just going to come over and want to sleep with you, you’re 100% wrong. You’re going to start attracting people instead of just going home and sitting on your warm couch, your warm phone in your hand, looking for a life.

Your life is not in your phone; your life is all around you.