drive_man_wild_womenI have a confession for you now.

I love when I’m with a woman who knows exactly how to drive me nuts.

Let’s start with the beginning.  I love being teased.

I don’t like when a woman just thinks that I need to be satisfied, so immediately she’ll take my clothes off and start sucking on my dick.  That never worked for me.  I’ve never been an instant blow job kind of person.  It’s almost too much.  But yet there are a lot of men that just love that, a woman that rips their clothes off and instantly goes down on them.  To me, I’m all about the slow go.

Lots of deep kissing.

Teasing, touching, kissing the neck, chest anything like that.

The more I’m teased, the more I’m going to want to tease her back, because most of the time, I’ll take the lead where I’ll actually start kissing the woman from head to toe, especially taking my time on some of those spots most people ignore.  Kissing behind your knees, kissing the small of your back.

Kissing your neck, flipping you over and kissing your entire back, and kissing the back of your neck and pulling your hair up off the back of your neck.

Sex is an erotic adventure between two people.

Me, I’m at an age right now where I come once a night, that’s plenty.  So I want to be able to build that up.  It was different when I was in my 20s, teens, and 30s.  I could literally recharge in a matter of minutes.  I was Super Man, or at least my penis was Super Man.

Now it’s all about taking my time.

If you’re with a man that comes too quickly, you’re really cultivating the sex to him, which means, you’re not getting satisfied.  I’ve been with women that have made me come too fast.  I was with a woman about a year ago, when I was inside her, she just wanted to feel me come, she wanted to get me off.

I was kind of bored, and didn’t like it.  As a matter of fact, it didn’t resonate with me at all.

I think she trained her body to do that because she’d never had an orgasm with a man and to me, it’s a mutual exchange of energies, souls, being able to look into each others eyes, being able to get each other to come.

And taking the time.  So all men are very different.  The way to start to drive a man wild in bed is understand what drives you wild in bed, because if you think about it, every lover you have, you’re going to need to re-train to show them their exploration through  mutual masturbation, how you come and how you want to be touched.

The more you show a man and the more you build up his ego, so he knows that he’s getting praised and doing great job turning you on and a great job at making you feel wonderful, the greater the sex is going to be, the more wild.

Men are very ego driven.

We want to have command of how sex goes, and hopefully how many times a woman comes. Because a man is an ego-driven beast. He wants to know that he’s making you come more than any other man, wants to know that he can conquer you. He wants to know that he is the master making your vagina or pussy feel so good.

So you need to train him that way. You need to show him and train him. Because if a man feels like he’s the best that you’ve ever had, he’s going to be driven wild in bed, because he knows he’s got that complete control over you. It’s the mastery of your heart, your soul and your mind. So that that’s how you can drive a man wild in bed. You have to use mental games here. That’s what it’s all about.