I’m going to share with you an insight right now, for those of you who don’t believe there are age appropriate men. Men who want age appropriate women.

All my life I’ve dated within a 10 to 12 year radius. Meaning I’ve dated people my own age, going down about 12 years. Well, not all my life. When I was 25, I certainly wasn’t dating 13, but you get the idea.

Most of my friends are very evolved men. Men who know what they want, men who know what they’re looking for. Men who like to be with a woman who has shared the same type of life experiences.

I do have other friends, and I do know many men who are 50 years old, who would sleep with a 20 year old in a heartbeat.

I know for a lot of women, that makes you cringe. But, some men are like that and those are the men that you need to eliminate from your consciousness.

The universe delivers exactly what we’re looking for, from the way we’re speaking. So if you tell the universe you don’t think there are any age appropriate men, you’re not going to find any age appropriate men. You’re going to run into men who are basically ageists.

They’re going to look at you, they’ll flirt with you, they’ll find out your age, and they’ll walk away because you’re not some 20-something hard body.PG-13

But, if you truly believe that there are tons of evolved, beautiful, amazing, soulful men, who are age appropriate, then guess what. They’ll show up. And when they show up, you’ll realize that they’re there, and you’ll do everything you can to bring them in with your beautiful, fantastic, age appropriate sexuality, wisdom, and warmth.

I’ve got a good friend who is 45 years old and he sleeps with 20 year olds. He says it’s so much fun, he loves their bodies.

Me, if I sit with a 20 year old, sure, I enjoy listening to them, and their lack of life experience. Their dreams and the overall naiveté.

It’s a beautiful thing. But I don’t need to be a part of it. I don’t need to have sex with them. I don’t need to have any more conquests. You see, I spent my 20’s conquering women, having sex and having fun.

Now all I’m looking for is an age appropriate woman who’s not broken into too many pieces, and who is realistic, honest and open. Because her sensuality and sexuality and life wisdom are far more interesting to me than any 20-something year old is.

I truly believe we can teach each other many things at all ages.

If I met a 25 year old girl, or woman, I’m sure there are things she could teach me and I’m sure we could have some fun together. But in the long run, we’re not going to relate to the same things. She won’t get my Brady Bunch jokes. We don’t listen to the same music.

Give me an evolved woman, one who’s sensual and alive, and full of knowing. Knowing who she is and her mistakes, and embraces them. I’d much rather be involved with somebody like that, because I’m going to have better conversation and a deeper connection.

We’re going to grow at the same level. We’re going to connect on a deep level together.

I don’t need to relive my 20’s. I don’t need to relive my 30’s. I am embracing the age that I am right now.

I’m embracing it as a man. Sure, would I like to look like I looked in my 20’s? Well, my body does. My face still looks young. But my hair is grayer. And I don’t have the same energy.

You know what? I’m not supposed to. I’m not looking to recapture my youth. I’m not looking to validate myself through women.

I want to grow, evolve, and expand.

There are many men like me out there.

You need to believe that, and you need to say that to yourself, so the universe can hear it. The universe can hear that you believe it, and the universe can deliver exactly what you need.

Be careful when you choose your words and watch your dating life change.