Is there one girl you met who you think got away?

Whether it was five days ago or years ago, I’m going to show you the trick, the secret to get her attention again and get her thinking about you.

The one that got away.

We all have that person. If we go through our relationship history, we always think there’s one that got away.

I call it romanticizing the ex.

In a moment of weakness we start thinking that our ex, even an ex from years ago, might be the person for us. We tend to only remember the good things. We don’t think about the reasons we split up.

This blog is not about getting an ex back.

It’s about connecting with the one that got away. It’s connecting with someone who you might have gone out with once, or twice, or three times, felt something for, but was not able to do anything about it.

For whatever reason.

I’ve got a couple of women that got away. I remember them and I take full blame for letting them get away.

Years ago I was living in Boulder, Colorado. It was 1996.couple

I set up a great business there. I had a great life.

But I had a dream that I needed to live in California. You see, when I moved to Boulder, I really wanted to move to California, but I did it half way.

I have a history in life of having to do things twice to get it right.

So I was living in Boulder and there was this one woman, her name was Denise.

Denise looked like Cheryl Ladd in her heyday. She was absolutely beautiful, gorgeous.

She was blonde, she was 5’4″, she was intelligent, sweet and warm. She was everything I wanted in a woman.

I remember she was dating somebody else.

So whenever I saw her, I would flirt with her and get to know her, and let her get to know me and let the universe work in my favor.

One night I was in my office working late. Denise walked in and asked why I there so late.

I said, “just working, getting things done.”

She said “how about we go out to dinner?”

I said, “absolutely!”

I picked her up a half an hour later.

She looked beautiful and she smelled yummy.

She told me she broke up with her boyfriend.

As we left the restaurant she said, “will you hold my hand?”

I held her hand and she snuggled up next to me. I could feel her, how warm she was. I got to smell how delicious she smelled.

I smelled her hair. And I smelled her neck as she nuzzled up against me.

We walked back to the car and I drove her home. As I drove into her driveway she looked at me and said, “will you please come up?”

I went up to her room and she literally threw me down on the bed. She got on top of me and started kissing me. I flipped her over and… the rest is private.

The problem was, I was moving to San Diego in a month. But Denise was exactly what I was looking for in a woman.

She told me, “all I want to do is make love to my boyfriend at night, be a good mom and have a nice life.”

But you see, at that time in my life I wanted to conquer the world. A simple life didn’t really turn me on that much.

I remember a few weeks later she dropped her son, who was four at the time, at my office for an hour for me to watch him. It was her way of seeing if her son and I bonded, or seeing where I was at. I remember the kid drove me nuts. I had no concept of what to do with a four year old.

So, I ended up breaking her heart and moving to San Diego.

About nine months later I realized that I let her get away and I called her.

She told me she was in love with somebody else, that she was wondering why I was bringing up an old wound, and that she had forgotten about me.

But you could hear in her voice that she hadn’t. I wasn’t crazy enough at that time to say, “you know what, why don’t you come to San Diego?”

When I was leaving Colorado she really wanted to move to San Diego with me.

The stars aligned, everything would have worked out perfectly.

But I let her get away. I was not mature. I was not ready for the gift that she was willing to give.

There are a lot of things that I take full responsibility for.

So I want you to watch today’s video. It’s about how to find your Denise.

It’s about how you can reconnect with your Denise, because I don’t care if it was two years ago or 20 years ago. With modern technology in today’s world, there are many ways to find your Denise again.

Who knows, maybe this time will be the right time. You never know until you try.

Watch this video.