How to Avoid Being the Booty Call
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I’m going to share a story with you, and I’m sure a lot of you are going to relate deeply.
How many times have you found yourself being a man’s sex buddy?
His booty call.
Yet deep down inside you thought that there was actually potential for a relationship.
Now be honest, when you listen to this story, tell me how you relate to this poor woman.
She’s a friend of mine.
I’ve known her for years. Let’s call her Emily.
Emily is a beautiful woman in her late 40s.
She’s been married, she’s been divorced, she’s had children.
She recently met a man. The guy was her age, dynamic, successful.
They connected. He was a gentleman. He didn’t try to sleep with her right away.
They started having sex. And the sex, as Emily described to me, was toe-curling. Best sex she’s ever had.
Emily went on to tell me the sex was an endless orgasm. Once the man got her going, she couldn’t stop. He looked into her eyes. He was passionate. He was amazing in bed.
When they had sex, they both said things they’d never said before.
She felt like there was love. One orgasm after the next. She felt more and more love.
But, the man would always make an excuse why the relationship wasn’t moving forward. They would break up for a couple of weeks even though they never were going out.
Then Emily would give in one more time, thinking there was no way in the world this guy can give up such passion. She’d never felt these things before. So Emily would sleep with him again. The night would be fantastic. It would be full of love, great sex, and good conversation. And then the man would vanish yet again.
Emily finally came and talked to me after talking to all her friends and trying to find a way to manipulate the situation. To make the man love her.
You’ve all been there.
I told Emily you’re his booty call. He loves the sex, but you’re acting like a 16 year old boy. She looked at me and said “what do you mean, a 16 year old boy?”
I said the roles reverse as women get past the age of 30. They go into their sexual prime.
Most men are so bad in bed that women never get to have those toe-curling nonstop three hour orgasms.
When they do, they basically fall for the first guy that gives it to them.
Just like a 16 year old boy. A 16 year old boy finds a girl that will actually have sex with him, touch his penis, and falls in love with her, because he’s in love with the sex.
It’s sad.
It’s sad but true. Women fall in love with the men that give them great sex. Because if you go so long without having your sexual needs met, when you finally find a guy that can give you all that, you’re like a high school boy falling in love with the great sex.
It’s totally understandable. I remember when I was in high school falling in love with my high school girlfriend because she would touch me. That’s what’s so funny, now the roles are reversed.
As men age they become better lovers. They’re more patient. As women age, they want it non-stop and the men their age can’t really do it non-stop. So when they find a man that can actually satisfy them non-stop, they fall for him. They crave him.
In this video I will share with you some tips on how to avoid being booty called. I strongly suggest you check it out. I don’t want to see you used. I don’t want to see you become the booty call.
There are ways to communicate that to a man. You need to put your foot down so you can avoid this problem again in the future.
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