Red Riding HoodIt’s podcast day on the blog, and I have a very important message for you today. Over the last couple of weeks I’ve had a lot of emails from women asking, “Why men won’t open up to me? Why does he lose interest in me? I thought he liked me. Now he’s stopped calling. Why?”

And it made me laugh because of some of the emails I get from men. They ask, “Why do women make it so hard for me to approach them? I gave her my best conversation and she just stood there? Why won’t women open up and respond to me when I talk to them?”

Do you see what’s happening here?

Guys want to approach you. Guys want to date you. Guys find you extremely attractive, but women have a terrible habit of making it difficult for men to get close to them. Let’s say your last boyfriend cheated on you. Now whenever you meet a man, you act suspiciously, or assume he’s going to do the same as the last guy.

Maybe it wasn’t even you he cheated on. Maybe one of your friend’s boyfriend’s cheated, and now you’re suspicious of men approaching you. When a guy calls, texts, and asks you on a date, even though he’s doing all the right things, you don’t trust him.

He could shower you with love and gifts, and you’d think he was covering up some bad behavior or trying to take advantage of you. I see it all time. I’ll see a man walk over to a woman, and try to start a conversation. Does she respond? She’ll occasionally tear her eyes from her phone and make the odd comment, but that’s it. You can see the distrust in her eyes.

Ladies, stop acting like Little Red Riding Hood. Not every man you meet is the big bad wolf, and not every guy you meet is going to do something terrible to you. You need to start opening up a little, and giving men a chance. How are you ever going to meet “the one” if you won’t open your heart to anyone?

In this podcast, I give you a look into the male mindset, and explain a little bit about how men think when we meet you, and show you how to give yourself a better chance of meeting the caring, loving guy you desire. And once you’ve listened to the podcast, I suggest you grab a copy of my program, “What Men Desire.”

It expands on what you’ll have heard, and helps you finally understand men, so you’re never confused or left wondering what his behavior means again.

Enjoy the podcast!