Good Girl Naughty Girl By David Wygant

Why do so many flirtatious beginnings just crash when they’re about to get hot? How many times as a man have you started flirting with a woman, she acts all hot and bothered for you, and then out of nowhere she stops calling and answering all your text messages?
Where did you go wrong? Did you leave a wrong message? Did you say something that turned them off? Or did you really not know what to say in the first place?

When is the last time you unlocked your inner Clooney? There’s a strong reason why women are attracted to George Clooney and Brad Pitt. Besides the way they look, it’s the way they walk, talk, look at women and . . . the final thing is . . . they’ve unlocked the “Good girl – Naughty girl Syndrome.”

Woman want to be your naughty girl! The only way to do this is to unlock her inner naughty girl. You have to start to think about the dynamic of how women think in order to unlock their inner naughty girl. To unlock a woman’s inner naughty girl, you need to make it a safe place for her to unlock the dirty side of her mind.

Most men do not understand this dynamic, and when they talk about sex they talk about it in raw terms. For instance, a man will say “I want to have sex with you right now.” A woman hears “All you care about is getting off, and you don’t care about my pleasure.” Or, a man will say “I’m feeling so horny today that I’m about to explode!” A woman hearing this will think “Well, why don’t you just jerk off then since there’s nothing in it for me!”

These are some of the reasons that flirtatious beginnings crash when they’re about to take off. Men need to realize that women are wired inside their mind. Deep sexual seduction starts inside a woman’s mind . . . not inside her groin. For a second, think inside your mind, and think what you feel like when you meet someone new. Here’s the obvious things. You’re attracted to her body. You’re attracted to her face. You anticipate seeing her for the very first time. You have similar interests.

Now let’s say you’ve gone out with her one or two times and you’ve made out with her, but you haven’t done anything deeper. You think you’re doing all the right things, but what you’re forgetting about is turning on the switch inside her mind that creates and lets go of her dirty girl! Now, most men think about the obvious things . . . they get lost inside the obvious things. They think like a man! They think about sex, and they have a desperate type energy about them. All they are thinking about is getting the woman back to their place so they can try to have sex with her.

A woman in this situation who initially felt a connection, will immediately in her mind switch from a feeling of excitement to one of caution. They put the brakes on in their head and they look for things to go wrong . . . and a man not knowing this will actually play right into that. I call this “The Scared Naughty Girl Syndrome.” Women feel all sorts of things. The problem is that you’re pushing them too much into the sexual tone, instead of allowing them to embrace their inner naughty girl.

Let me give you a couple examples – they will think these things:

1. “I like him, but I felt this way before and it did not work out.”
2. “Does he feel the same way as me? Is he having the same connection as me emotionally, or is he just looking to get laid, because he is talking about sex a little too much.”

All this leads to them taking a jab at you to protect them from falling for you if you’re the wrong guy. For instance, they will say something to you like “Are you just looking to have sex, or are you trying to get to know me?” Or they’ll say “I’m not looking for just sex. I’m looking for someone to connect with emotionally.” This is what I call “The Very Scared Naughty Girl Syndrome.”

So what do you do in this situation? Most men will get defensive and they’ll say “I’m not looking just for sex. I want to meet somebody great!” In that situation a woman hears “He’s just looking for sex ’cause he got defensive.” Women hear things differently from men. You need to learn how to ‘speak woman.’

One way to do this is to read between the lines and lob in a “good girl” at her. Women need safety to keep going. So if she gets defensive in an email, instead of you defending yourself back, you need to validate what she’s telling you in a very simple way: Tell her that you’re really enjoying connecting with her. That’s it! That’s what she’ll hear. Hearing these simple words of praise and reassurance from you will continue the intense flirting, and they will allow her to feel good about her decision and her feelings of a dirty sexual nature.

This is called “The Good Girl Praise.” Women live in fear of being hurt, and as the men it’s your job to encourage her. Encourage her to be the sexual being that she so desires!

I go over all of this in part 8 of my mens mastery series. I teach you in depth how to unlock her inner naughty girl and how to sexually have her like never before.

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