It was funny. Last Friday night I had 3 emails come in from different guys all asking me the same thing. “Where can I meet new people? I don’t like bars, I don’t go the gym, and I don’t want to sit in a coffee store all day.”

Obviously not all 3 guys sent that exact message, but the general theme was, they can’t think of where to meet new women. Are you serious? Everywhere you go there’s an opportunity to meet people. It doesn’t matter if you’re in the queue at a bank, wondering around Whole Foods, or sitting in a park. There are people EVERYWHERE. You just need to go and talk to them.

Here’s the problem. Instead of living life, and meeting people as you go, most guys make meeting a woman their aim. If they go out for a drink on a Friday night, they’re not going to hang out and have a good time with friends. They’re going out to meet a woman and get a date. They make the night outcome dependant. Even if they have a great time with friends, if they don’t meet a woman they put the night down as a failure. 

It’s the same if you go into a coffee shop with the sole purpose of sitting there and waiting to meet a woman. Yes, coffee shops are great places to meet women, but don’t go with that being your goal. Life is for living. You can meet tons of women just going about your daily life. You don’t need to go anywhere special to meet them. 

When you fill up your car with gas, you can meet people. When you do your groceries, you can meet people. Waiting for a bus, you can meet people. You need to start living life and not chasing it. These guys want to know where to meet new people? Everywhere!

That said, do you have a local strip mall?

If you do, you’ll never have to look any further than that little hub of stores to meet as many women as you could ever desire!

I demonstrate the magic of finding your local strip mall in the video below! 😉

Enjoy!