Dear David WygantWell done!

After weeks of staring at her, you finally got the courage to ask that girl for her number. After a nice conversation, she smiles, gives you her number, and goes on her way. That’s when it starts. The confusions sets in.

“Should I text or call her?” “What should I say?” “Should I tell her I like her?” “Should I flirt?” “Should I ask her out?”

You did the hardest part walking over and talking to her. Now you’re going to ruin your chance with her because you don’t know what to do next. Any of this sound familiar? It’s exactly what this week’s Dear David “star” Chris is going through right now!

Here’s his email and my response…

“David. I’m pumped. I followed your advice, and a couple of days ago I met this lovely girl. I opened her with an observation, we chatted, and then she gave me her cell number. But here’s the thing, even though we’ve texted back and forth a few times I realized I don’t really know what to do next.

I don’t have a plan and I’m worried about blowing it by doing the wrong thing. She’s agreed to meet up next week but I haven’t thought about where or what to do with her. Help!”

David Says…

Hi…

Ok, you have about 24 hours to rescue this situation or you’re going to blow it. Forget the texting back and forth. Pick up the phone and SPEAK to her. It sounds like the date you have lined up for next week is only loosely arranged. That’s the first thing you need to fix. Pick up the phone and say, “I loved speaking to you the other day. Let’s carry on from where we were next week. Tuesday or Wednesday is good for me. Which is best for you? I’ll come and pick you up at 3.”

Take control. Give her a couple of days to choose from but throw the ball in her court. Make a decision and show her you’re the man. It’s about closing her. She wants to know you’re happy to take control. Otherwise, you’ll become “text buddies” and before long, you’ll find yourself in the friend zone.

Where to take her?

If it’s a first date, don’t spend a fortune.  The last thing you want to do is spend a ton of money on a girl and then find out you can’t stand her. Take her for a coffee or hot chocolate, go round and look at some of the holiday displays in the malls, or just use your imagination. There are tons of cool dates you can take her on without spending a dime. If you don’t have a copy of my “Art Of Close” program, I’d suggest you get one.

I give you a bundle of great first date ideas in there, and show you step by step exactly what to do once you have her number!

Good luck!