On Sincerity

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By David Wygant April 5, 2013 184 Shares

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sincere asian girl I meet a lot of men that ask me about how I became David Wygant.

I get emails asking for tips on how to meet women in grocery stores, on the streets, in phone booths, and on the moon.

Guys are always looking for answers, they’re always looking to be something that they aren’t.

So I usually tell them:

“I can teach you to be me but it’s never going to help you become better with women.”

They’re always shocked at this. Like there is a secret formula that I can give them that will eliminate all their fears and bullshit and transform them into master seducers.

But it’s not true.

The real secret sauce to success with women is sincerity.

If that’s the first time you’ve ever heard that then you’re in for a treat. Today’s video is all about how adopting sincerity will absolutely change your dating life.

Watch and enjoy:

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Cristian

Saturday, April 6th, 2013

David i think ths video is so true!!! i dated a beautiful girl the other day but i felt as if all the time i was trying to be someone i was not, probably overwhelmed by her beauty and personality... i came back home depressed and promised myself never to fake being somene else, even though that may not look as "cool" or whatever... i think sometimes we are so desperate to get something we think is out of our reach that we just fake who we are, even lie about ourselves just cause we think that can give us a better chance... and it is a shame, in fact i felt shameful the other day... Thanks for the video David, it will be of great us keep up the great work!

Cristian

Saturday, April 6th, 2013

David i think a blog on how harsh we are sometimes at ourselves would be good idea too!

Pablo

Saturday, April 6th, 2013

Hi David how are you? I just wanted to say how greatfull i am for these kind of videos and podcast that you shear with all of us all the time. I am from Bolivia (south America) and i know that my english and grammar isn't great but i just wanted you to know how inspired and motivated i am because of your support. I have been following you since about a year ago approximatly and just wanted to say thank you!. Best regards. Pablo

ropeadopa

Saturday, April 6th, 2013

This is one of my favorite blogs ever. It's so true... thinking that if you just knew the right things to say everything would be ok. Not even just saying the right things but acting the right way... which is a never ending cycle of failure. With sincerity, vulnerability definitely seems inherent. I think I talk at people too much... just think too much in general.

Grant

Sunday, April 7th, 2013

Here's the problem with sincerity Dave: If I sincerely believe that I'm an asshole then I will create that reality and I will be an asshole and sure an asshole can get laid but who in the hell really wants to have to be an asshole in order to get laid. What if I sincerely believe that I can't meet women? Then I will create that reality and never meet women. What if I sincerely believe that I'm never going to get laid? Then I will create that reality and never get laid? Come on David who are you trying to kid it can't come down to just sincerity !!! Doesn't it all boil down to just doing what works even if it isn't who we really are? What if I'm a guy who sincerely doesn't ever want to have to work ever again? Okay if I follow through on that then whose going to pay my rent at the end of the month is it David Wygant? Hell no ! David we all have to do things we don't want to do? We all want to become things that we aren't presently. From the guy who wants to be a doctor to the woman who wants to be the first president of the United States. David please throw this mythical sincerity fish back in the water because it doesn't exist !!! Bullshit you say !!! What if I sincerely believe that David Wygant is going to give me $1,000,000 for doing absolutely nothing. So hey David please help me to sincerely believe that but hey if your just too busy to do that then hey just cut me a cheque for $1,000,000 :):):) Grant :):):) ps Yes I'm aware that I'm a smart-ass but being a smart-ass all of the time will never get me laid if not hey all you hot female David Wygant blog readers out there please submit all relevant info to David Wygant so that I can set up a date and time for us to sleep together. Come on women hurry up because I'm in more dire need of a.......... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VB1JlHWvRxc :):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)

Technoboy

Monday, April 8th, 2013

P.S Oh yeah, Grant, well I won enough play money at Dave and Buster's to get a coffee machine and a new board game. And I am one short visit away from a remote controlled helicopter. Pbbbbbbbt :p They used to have this ticket dispensing puzzle game called Chips Away, and I found a way to exploit the scoring mechanism and get a jackpot almost at will. They caught on and took that away from me though, so now I'm down to this stacking game that involves precise timing (jackpot that one about half the time) and Doodle Jump (no jackpots but the scoring is very generous). By the way do people around you ever wonder when you are going to grow up, and start talking news + politics and exchanging pleasantries for fun, and find a place to settle down, erect a fence, have 2.3 kids, and have getting new siding for your house be the most exciting event of the year? Because I get that one a lot too.

Technoboy

Monday, April 8th, 2013

"Doesn’t it all boil down to just doing what works even if it isn’t who we really are?" Actually, this is a key point. You COULD go that route, and many people have succeeded with it, but you'd be prostituting your authenticity. Would you do that? Not me. I ended up here because I am stubborn as an ox, and have never sold out my values, and don't plan on starting anytime soon. Or ever. I didn't want to hang out in bars or go speed dating or online dating because I just don't ENJOY these things and they are just not me. And I most definitely did not want to start bullshitting people because honesty and integrity are more important concepts to me than getting laid. Bah! That mindset held me back significantly in the beginning, but it all paid off in the end because I eventually ended up here as a result of it. Because Wygant shows us that, contrary to popular belief, it IS in fact possible to get a woman's attention without being a phony. There is in fact hope for stubborn oxes like myself. All it takes is being in the upper echelon of men when it comes to making observations about her, paying attention and remembering things, starting a conversation, fishing for personal details, being playful, flirting, talking about feelings, planning seductive dates, sneaking in some stealth innuendo, reading her mind, handling her quirks and insecurities, etc . It's really that easy!

Joe

Sunday, April 7th, 2013

Grant, It's ... You "sincerely" believe that you are a smart-ass" bro, not "that you are AWARE that you are a smart-ass".(concerning the last portion of your description above). WTF, are you above the law Grant or what? LOL. ::) ::) ::) I think David's using the word "sincere" as it applies to SUCCESS WITH WOMEN and not success as it applies to yourself ? How about being up front with women ? I don't know ?

Grant

Sunday, April 7th, 2013

Hi Joe, “WTF, are you above the law Grant or what? LOL.” Well Joe, I was recently at an 'arcade/county fare like' place where I won enough play money that I was able to purchase a shiny gold colored plastic kids deputy Sheriff badge and although I don't believe I'm above the law in these here parts(Canada) I am the law !!! :):):) “I think David’s using the word “sincere” as it applies to SUCCESS WITH WOMEN and not success as it applies to yourself ?” Well Joe, admittedly your probably right but hey I'm a smart-ass and when I saw an opening I took it !!! :):):) What can I say Joe as this is the exact kind of thing any good smart-ass would do only thing is I got there first :):):) Grant :):):)

Ben Hunt

Sunday, April 7th, 2013

I think rather than sincerity a better word would of been authenticity. Being true to yourself and who you are, and working on becoming the best version of that self is what is going to get you places!

Grant

Sunday, April 7th, 2013

“Hey, guys, do you know what really attracts women? Writing like a man. That means not making childish mistakes like: you’re – your have – of (“would of been”? Oh, please) loose – lose Try to write like a man. I guarantee women we’ll appreciate it.” Hi Love and be Loved, I think you have a really good point here however if you do this in real life with your girlfriend by constantly stopping and correcting how she speaks always remember that you have to sleep sometime and you may wake up to find your eyebrows have been shaved off :):):) Also I know it's always great to have great grammar and punctuation where conversing with a woman via text or email but if you get too mindful of that I think you can end up getting a lot of “white noise” floating through your brain like David mentions in his Goals: What Being Present Really Means (Podcast) and that can't be good for you in the long run !!! Grant

Love and be loved

Sunday, April 7th, 2013

Hey, guys, do you know what really attracts women? Writing like a man. That means not making childish mistakes like: you're - your have - of ("would of been"? Oh, please) loose - lose Try to write like a man. I guarantee women we'll appreciate it.

Grant

Sunday, April 7th, 2013

Hi Ben, I think your absolutely right !!! I guess I hold David to a higher standard and when he slipped up I gave him some teasing but at the end of the day he's David Wygant and he makes lots of money so I think he can take it !!! :):):) Grant

Joe

Sunday, April 7th, 2013

Appreciate your sense of humor Grant. You can JOKE PRETTY HARD sometimes! Yes, was that opening that you saw, and then took advantage of.... ? Never mind, some of that "white noise" just cropped up on me... CREEPPPYYYYY. :-) Ok dude, meandering over to the gym to pump some iron and then take a dip in the pool. Gear some of my mind in harmony with the present...

Grant

Monday, April 8th, 2013

“Ok dude, meandering over to the gym to pump some iron and then take a dip in the pool. Gear some of my mind in harmony with the present…” Hi Joe, I joined a new gym today as the old one wasn't working for me anymore and I'm glad I made the change as there are a lot more hot women here and some are even in my age range so it's great to make a fresh start in a place where people don't know me !!! Grant

Hans

Sunday, April 7th, 2013

Very good blog. Everybody likes compliments, and if you really mean it, people appreciate it. I was in Barcelona/Spain a while ago, and there was this young woman walking in front of me, her walk was just too much. I said to her: Señorita, me gusta su manera de andar... Yes, it is better if you do it in the local language, because Spaniards in particular don't speak English too well. The nice thing about compliments is that it leaves YOU with a good feeling, too !

John

Sunday, April 7th, 2013

"I even appreciate the assholes that make dumb comments" Well David... It feels good to be appreciated! Thank you!

Hans

Monday, April 8th, 2013

LOL...

Mike Hesche

Sunday, April 7th, 2013

Dear David: With regards to sincerity and observation, I've been struggling with understanding how to find and talk to women my own age. Right now, I'm living in a college town and having to lie that I'm 22 not 27. However, people seem to buy it and believe that I'm 22, even at work. My best friend has told me to lie about my school because at my age, people think its weird that I'm still in college. What's your take on this issue? -Mike

Technoboy

Monday, April 8th, 2013

"No, your shirt doesn't make you look fat, my dear. Your flubby tummy is what makes you look fat." I'm practicing my authenticity, guys :) All wisecracks aside though I loved the story about the normal guy meeting a cool chick on the street. I believe in the chaos theory of life - that insignificant little random accidents like blabbing to a stranger about their choice of pomegranates can end up changing your life. For example, I got to know MichiGirl because she got stranded at an event and I forgot my jacket and went back for it. If she had reliable friends and I weren't such a scatterbrain, I never would have swooped in to her rescue that day. How random is that?! On a related note I recently discovered my new favorite band by accidentally taking the wrong train on the metro.

Hans

Monday, April 8th, 2013

Techno...the flubby tummy remark makes my day ! Girls (and pretty much everybody else) need to hear the truth: Honey, do I look fat in this ? No dear, you ARE fat ! I wish everybody in the world would stop giving false compliments. If a woman looks like her dad humped a Brontosaurus, don't tell her she looks fine.

Grant

Monday, April 8th, 2013

Hahahaha !!!! OMG Hans I think I've become a bad influence on you and created a monster...oh well I guess I'll just have to roll with this...now it's time for you to go after all the women who either externally or internally(personality) look like Godzilla and kick some ass !!! :):):)

Mar

Monday, April 8th, 2013

Tech, "...I believe in the chaos theory of life – that insignificant little random accidents like blabbing to a stranger about their choice of pomegranates can end up changing your life" I agree dude! I met my current gf by placing a bet with my sister. I said the young lady was attractive and my sister dared me to go over and converse with her. I had some chatter going on in my head (she might blow me off, have a boyfriend, etc). Honestly, it was her my sister's challenge that made me follow through. She wasn't about to see me timid or fearful of! Life changer...

Technoboy

Monday, April 8th, 2013

Actually I oversimplified. Turns out the MichiGirl incident was especially symbolic because it was a combination of wild chance AND skill. I busted her about just wandering off with a stranger, and that I could have just driven off into the woods and had my way with her for all she knows. She confessed that she had observed me intently and mulled over it before deciding to drop the question and wouldn't just drive off with a random stranger. Because these days when I go out, I go to the same few places over and over, make my goal to just have lots of fun, flirt with and get to know EVERYONE, and become an active member of the community rather than just another visitor. This shouldn't surprise anyone though - it's all part of the curriculum + I'm just repeating what Wygant told me :)

Justin

Tuesday, June 4th, 2013

Great video David. I've pulled more chics from being honest about my intentions than when I use to use routines and pickup lines. Honesty and sincerity is the best policy!!!

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