how to kissThere’s a question that pops up in my inbox quite a bit.

It always goes something like this:

David,

When I’m on a date, all I think about is kissing the woman and sealing the deal. I’m freaking the hell out, and I can’t even hear what she has to say.

How do I just kiss her in the first hour and just get it over with?

Here’s my simple answer to that question:

Eye contact always elicits a kiss.

The deeper you stare into her eyes, and show her that you’re the man, the more turned on she’s going to get.

Whenever she says something that’s interesting, always smile, and look in her eyes, and make a comment.

Get deeper in the conversation as quickly as possible. Women get turned on and want to kiss men that listen to them.

Women want to kiss men that are not afraid to back down.

And women will kiss a man like this if he goes for it.

So let’s say you’re on a date, and you can feel like your butt cheeks clenching together because you feel like you’re going to crap your pants if you don’t get the first kiss done and over with.

So what do I suggest in this situation?

It’s really simple:

After listening to her for about an hour, look at her and say, “You know what, there’s something I need to do right now because it’s something that we’re going to do a little later anyway.

I thought it would be just appropriate to get it over with, so you don’t feel nervous in my presence anymore…”

Then pull her close to you, slide your hand onto the back of her neck, pull her lips close to you, and kiss her.

Now, don’t jam her face with your fucking tongue, like you haven’t eaten in four days.

Just kiss her lips, two times, smile, and look at her and say this:

“I’m really glad we got that over with. I saw how nervous you were starting to get. I felt like you were anticipating that kiss, and I just wanted to make sure that you can concentrate on this great conversation we were having. Now continue to tell me about that dysfunctional brother of yours.”

That’s how I do it.

No get in there and get it over with—she’ll be both pleased and relieved as well.