How He REALLY Wants You to Give Him a Blowjob (Podcast)

Women's Advice Sex, Turn-Ons & Turn-Offs, Uncategorized

By David Wygant January 2, 2013 463 Shares

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podcast with david wygant I was talking with a close friend of mine, Ellen, and she told me a startling statistic…

She said that something like 44% of relationships end because the woman didn’t give her man enough head.

Crazy right?!

I couldn’t believe it myself.

So I figured that we should talk about how men want be pleased so this never happens to you!

Listen in right now below.

Also, be sure to write your thoughts and comments below, I would love to hear from you.

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Sandra

Thursday, January 3rd, 2013

I love giving head but do not want the cum in my mouth. The taste is awful to me and I would throw up if it happened.

Bob

Thursday, January 3rd, 2013

Sandra, I'm not going to tell you that you should do anything that makes you uncomfortable, but you should be aware that if you do it that way (refuse to let him cum in your mouth) you have to be really creative or else he will feel a sense of rejection on some level.

Bob

Thursday, January 3rd, 2013

I married a "spitter." Spitting is kind of a turn off, but not a total deal-killer. At least . . . I feel that way and if you search around I'm sure there are many other men like me. The fact that you are discreet about it is nice. It's a very nice touch. A total "Phooey i hate this" every time I get a blow job, might be a major thing, but part of being masculine means trying to respect a woman's wishes and eccentricities. Some women get icked-out about spiders, some about my sperm. It's not a deal-breaker, at least not for me.

kate

Thursday, January 3rd, 2013

it gives me a sore throat, a full blown itchy swollen one that can last for a day or so. so I take it in my mouth and hold it for a little while and then discreetly- as he is generally faint and out of it with pleasure- spit it into a tissue he knows that I am not really swallowing because of my sore throat thing but, by at least taking it in for a while i think it helps him feel that I have received him that's my similar thing. I can understand though how you could not be able to stand it at all

Karen

Thursday, January 3rd, 2013

This was an interesting wake up call to me. I give head more in longer sex sessions or if my man has spent too much time holding back for my pleasure and now can't seem to come under "normal" circumstances...so I need to be putting my "anywhere anytime" hat on and doing it-- I enjoy giving him pleasure-- just don't think of it as often as I should! Thanks for the insight!

Bob

Thursday, January 3rd, 2013

oops relied to wrong post (blush)

Bob

Thursday, January 3rd, 2013

I dunno. I ENJOY going down on a woman, and i could give you a whole list of reasons why I do. If that's the only thing that happens during a sex session (I go down on her 6 times but there are no blow jobs or vaginal sex etc.) it would be kind of a downer, but if I'm committed to some woman, I'd gladly put up with it and smile (A LOT) into the future knowing that I've done something really nice for her. I'd bet it's a night she'll remember, and I like that. I assume it's the same way with women going down on men.

Bob

Thursday, January 3rd, 2013

I don’t want to post so much on this thread that I sound creepy or anything but I’ve got a couple of things to add. 1. On the podcast, a woman named Ellen described blowjobs in terms of “not real sex” or something like that. As I said, I ENJOY going down on a woman and if she doesn’t feel the same way about going down on a man well, I guess that means Ellen and I are not compatible. 2. There are a lot of factors (how long it’s been since I’ve had sex etc.) but in general, if we assume a night of sex consists of 3-5 individual sex acts, the first one is, for me by far the quickest and the most difficult to control. Thus strategically, it might make sense for some women to start off with a blow job. (The quickie one, the one that he cannot control much is thus “out of the way.”) Of course, if the guy conks out and goes to sleep right after, well . . . it sucks to be you, but you could always give 15 mins and then wake him up.

annie

Friday, January 4th, 2013

Hi guys, I agree with all the technical aspect of that conversation. I feel contracted though when I hear something like: "It releases a level of oxytocin that makes them bond with us", without making any difference between a one night stand and a committed relationship. There are a lot of women out there (and I was one of them)who feel that sex is a way to bond with men, that men are bonding to women the way we do bond to men through physical contact, which is not the case. I agree that a man who is already in love with a woman will feel that bond stronger through a great blowjob! But women, if you are fantastic at blowjobs on a one night stand, you are just fantastic at blowjobs for a one night stand. Obvious David? Not for a woman. It's part of your job to let them know. Regards...

Bob

Friday, January 4th, 2013

Hi annie, I wasn’t going to comment on this thread anymore because, well I didn’t want it to seem like, well whatever. But you seem to have been through some sort of sexual/emotional clothes-wringer that has left you needing a friend. I am married, (most of the time happily), this is not sort of come on. You posted “There are a lot of women out there (and I was one of them)who feel that sex is a way to bond with men, that men are bonding to women the way we do bond to men through physical contact, which is not the case.” If I could give you some friendly advice, it sounds to me like you need to sort through your men better. Some of us just want to get in to your pants and no number, no quality, of blowjobs will ever create any sort of “bonding” beyond “I want to keep her around so she’ll give me another really great blow job.” But there are honest guys out there. There are also crooked guys who straighten up. ( and straightened guys who become a little deprived and crooked.) I’m not trying to say “you’re wrong.” I’m trying to say that there are still honest men out there, for them sex is a very important bonding experience, and not just part of trying to get into your pants, and blow jobs are an important part of that. Look, I don’t have a dog in this fight. I am married and off-the-market I’m just trying to tell you the truth.

annie

Sunday, January 6th, 2013

Thanks for your answer, Bob! I'm curious however: did your wife give you a blow job on the first date you spent together?

Bob

Monday, January 7th, 2013

Umm, no. But ours was a very different situation. She was a 22-year virgin, i was her friend who started tutoring her. There are many college-type atmospheres where people already know each they "hook up" several times before an actual first date. Out in the real world of adults dating, first dates barely know each other. Whatever you do to/fora guy on the first date part of the message will be "I do this with almost every guy on a first date." Any sort of kissing or sex becomes a bonding experience for him only if he knows it means something to you.

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