How Honest Are You REALLY?

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By David Wygant December 6, 2009 199 Shares

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I was thinking about something today which prompted me to write this blog. Let me ask you a question: How important in your life is being 100% honest?

Now take this one step deeper and ask yourself this question: How honest are you with yourself?

When confronted with life’s lessons, are you 100% honest with yourself or do you always point the finger at others and play the role of the victim?

So what made me think of this today?

People are always looking for outside answers and help, when in reality the truth always lies within themselves.

Let’s declare today a day of self-confession and realization.

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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James Y

Sunday, December 6th, 2009

While I am not 100% honest with myself all the time, I strive to be. Moreso now, than back when I was with my ex. And the funny thing about that, is my ex does nothing but play the victim. I think that's part of why I started being more honest with myself and others. Because I didnt like it about her. And I have found that you usually don't like something about someone, when it's something you either don't like about yourself, or it's something you didnt like about how you used to be. Thanks, David. As always, you hit the nail on the head!

Adrian

Sunday, December 6th, 2009

In the end it's almost always my own fault, I mean there are things I can't control, but if I take responsibility I will learn some valuable lesson and gain experience. It's sometimes hard to get it where you were wrong and sometimes you go blame others first, but later on it catches up and you accept reality. I used to be a victim in the past, but not now.

Tony888

Sunday, December 6th, 2009

If we were more honest with ourselves, we'd all be a lot better off. And if everyone was more honest with other people, that would double the benefits.

Mike-Ro

Monday, December 7th, 2009

David I try to be honest with myself, but sometimes I look for other persons aprovals. I have my moments when I'm the best me I can be, but I do have moments of weakness when I try to find something to get me 'in the mood'. Don't know what else to say, only that I want consistency from myself.I want to wake up every day and feel like the best version of me. Usually it happens when I'm aroung people that I enjoy, I charge from them, I have great positive energy when I'm with them but it fades after 2-3 days. Is it posible to always feel good about yourself and in the same time honest?Cause when I'm in that good spirit I'm very honest,about me,about others.... Tell me if it's posibile and if so...how can I do that. Thanks!

George

Monday, December 7th, 2009

Mike-RO, I understand exactly how you feel. However, I constantly fight so I cannot wait for approvals. It makes me very lazy, weak, and I constantly believing that their answer will solve my problems. Don't wait on people's approval for you to reach your best. Like David said "The why living your life is so hard is Because it has never been done before."

Mike-Ro

Monday, December 7th, 2009

Never heard that one :) .George I get it but in those days when I lack that energy and confidence I get very...complacent?I don't wanna be seen I want to hide from the world in a way till I get that energy back.And in those moments I judge myself very harsh. Anyway thanks for the reply, I'm curious if you know what I've talked about in this comments, those kind of feelings.Or maybe is just because I'm still very young.Who knows...I wanna have that energy EVERYDAY!:D

pete

Tuesday, December 8th, 2009

Thanks for clearing it out my friend this helps!

Khiem/Ken (DW Coach)

Wednesday, December 9th, 2009

Mike-Ro, You can have that energy once you find your true purpose, your true passion. When you do more of the things you love, you get energized by it and you get motivated by it... and that's when you stop looking for other people's approval because you know that what you do... is what you care about.

Mike-Ro

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

I get that when I talk to people who I feel a chemestry with and as you said doing things I like, for example dancig, I teach others to dance:) so yeah that's when I get pumped and have great energy. But since I'm in the last year at highschool I can't do everything I want to do. But, what can I say...I just love it when I feel that energy.I feel that I can talk to any girl and have no fear at all! Thanks for the reply, I hope to do what I love, I mean I want to study pshichology ,even dough everybody sais it's not a good choice but I want to do something like David does, help others with all kind of problems.And with a bit of luck I'll have a chance to go abroad cause here,people don't reach for help, if you go to a shrink or other kind of help you are considered a freak. Get what I mean?I get all excited talking about this :) Oh yeah, I get that energy when I teach other guys the things David teaches.If I can show a guy some things, how to think and so on, I realize that I myself have leared it.Sorry for the long comment.Would really apreciate a response on this, to get you're opinion on what I want to do :)

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James Y

Adrian

Tony888

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George

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pete

Khiem/Ken (DW Coach)

Mike-Ro