Best Seat at the Table
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Today we are having our 2nd day of the first bootcamp of 2009.
And starting this year all bootcamps are 3 long fun days!!!!!
This is a conversation we had last night and it is something that most people do not ever think of.
Do you know what is the best place to sit when you go out with a group of eight people or more?
Most people will make the mistake of taking the end seat of the table. The problem with that seat is that if you have people on your side that you don’t want to talk to anymore, you’re just stuck in silent mode the whole time.
The key seat to take at all times when you go out with a group of people is the middle seat of the long side. Then, you can direct your conversation to just about everyone.
If you sit at the end, that’s not the lead seat – that’s the lecture seat.
Khiem: Sure, if you’re in a formal setting, the end is a good place to sit. But if you’re in a social setting, the best seat is absolutely-right-in-the-middle. You can connect to more people and you can also pay attention to everyone.
David: It’s a really important thing. Whenever you’re out at a group meal, make sure you’re not at the end. You don’t want to be at the head of the table.
You’d much rather be in the middle because if you look at the way the projection works – the person in the middle can basically project all the way across the table with no problem.
But when you’re at the very end, you’re stuck.
A lot of people always go for that seat because they think it has the most space. They think that it’s the best seat. And it is, from a power-structure point of view. You feel like you’re in the power zone.
It’s really that easy!
Todays video will bring back some fun summer memories.
Enjoy the day!!
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