Back in Time By David Wygant

First night in London…….as promised there is a great podcast live from London at the end of the blog….bit don’t just scroll down.

Todays blog is a great lesson for all men that chase young women.

I was asked the other day if I would go back in time knowing what I know now. Would I want to be in my early twenties again? Would I want to go back in time, knowing everything that I know now?

Well, business-wise, yeah! Absolutely. It would be a blast – to be 22 years old and dominating the business world. To be 22 but knowing what somebody in their forties knows, business-wise? The power would be unbelievable. The deals that I could make, the connections I know how to create, the way I can handle business – I’d retire by the age of 30!

But would I go back and date?

The answer to that is: absolutely not.

I don’t want to go back and date 20-something year-old-girls. I’m in my forties, and I love women over the age of 30 – they’re evolved. They know who they are. They know their bodies! The way they describe sex and emotional connections is far deeper than a girl in her early to mid-twenties.

I’m sitting here with the guys (and if you all don’t know who the guys are by now it’s Yakub and Khiem – but you should know by now because you’ve been reading the blog and they’ve been a part of a bunch of blogs lately) and we’re talking right now. We were really having an open and frank discussion about sex.

Yakub and I were talking about the difference between a 36-year-old woman and a 22-year-old woman. Khiem says, “yeah, the 22-year-old woman, when she describes sex, will say, ‘do me hard.’ A 36-year-old woman when describing sex will talk about the emotional connection – the erotic side, the buildup.”

And not only that, but a woman in her thirties knows how to please a man. She knows exactly what to do to a man, because she enjoys it. I used to beg for blowjobs in my twenties. When I was in my twenties and dating girls in their twenties, I was begging for blowjobs. I would go down on the girl and get her off, and she’d give me the complimentary “me sucky for two seconds” type of deal before we’d have sex.

And let me tell you something: I KNOW when a woman is not enjoying that part of the process. I knew it when I was young, and I know it now. But now it’s different. There’s a hunger. When women over the age of 30 have sex with a man, and you’ve stimulated them in all sorts of ways – when you’ve gotten inside their mind, body, and soul – they are hungry for you. They will eat you like they haven’t eaten steak in three years! They will devour every bit of you.

Ask a woman in her thirties to describe sex. Ask her to describe what she likes to do to a man, and listen to every single detail. She’ll tell you how she likes to kiss every inch of a man’s body. She’ll describe oral sex in ways that will blow you away – literally!

Now, ask a woman in her early to mid-twenties to describe sex – and it’s all physical. There are no emotions attached to it. She’s not eating your body. She might be kissing you, but she’s not feeling the emotions in it. She’s not physically in tune with her body yet.

So it’s funny when a lot of guys I know that are in their mid to late-forties are chasing girls in their twenties – why do they do that?

Why would you deprive yourself of connecting with an amazing woman? Why do you want to date little girls?

No offense – I know that there are a lot of young readers under 30 of this blog that are women, and I think you are wonderful. I think you’re great, I think you’re on a wonderful journey of life. But that doesn’t mean that I don’t want to jump into that journey! And it doesn’t mean that I want to go back in time and relive my dramatic twenties.

If I had to chose between the most beautiful woman in the world who is 25 years old with a perfect body – no lines, nothing – and a 35-year-old woman whose body was not as hard as the 25-year-old’s, who might have smile lines on her face – I’d pick the 35-year-old day in and day out.

Because that is a woman I get to experience. That is a lifetime of passion.

I don’t need raw sex. I need a woman.

So all the men out there chasing younger women, let me steer you in the right direction. If you are over the age of 35, you should only be dating women over the age of 30. They are wonderful, they’re fantastic, and they’re going to give you the most amazing sexual experience you can ever imagine.

Let the young girls practice on the young boys. I want a woman when she becomes a woman, and let the boys practice. When I was a boy, I practiced on the older women and the younger women.

But I’m not into practice anymore. I’m into connecting.

Tonight I am in London and I will be sharing with all of you podcasts and videos from my coaching trip,

I had a really cool talk today with this cab driver and these two sexy…….you will just have to listen to find out what happened.