Kohonies
By David Wygant

The other night I was heading to a restaurant in Sherman Oaks where I was meeting a date. Now this is a first date. I didn’t really know much about her, and I was on the phone with a client while I was waiting for my date to arrive.

So I get out of my car, hand my keys to the valet (making the usual wish that the car comes back in one piece), and walk into the restaurant. As I walk in I see a woman sitting there waiting for her friends, and we had a lot of chemistry.

As my client was still chatting my ear off on the phone, I look directly at this woman and in my mind I say to myself “I want to get to know you. Who are you?’” Then I looked at her just like that, because creating a powerful mindset is what turns a woman on.

In order to get a woman interested in you, you’ve got to look at her and claim her as yours. She doesn’t want a soft, wimpy guy who looks at her with fear. She also doesn’t want a guy who stalks her down thirty minutes after he first sees her.

A woman wants a guy who is going to look directly in her eyes, and in his eyes he is going to be communicating this: “You are mine. I want to get to know you. And I am going to walk right over, and you and I are going to talk.” So how do you convey this look if you’ve never done it before?

There are a couple of ways I teach men in my Mastery Series and in my bootcamps. In order to create a powerful mindset, you need to see it in action. When I am working with my clients, I teach them how to do this . . . and I give them the same homework I’m going to give you right now.

Watch “Oceans Eleven” and pay attention to the way George Clooney talks to a woman. Look at how he makes eye contact, and look at the way he looks directly into a woman’s eyes. Also, look at the way he smiles and look at his energy.

Another movie to rent is “Shampoo” with Warren Beatty. This is another phenomenal movie that will teach you how to look at a woman. For you James Bond fans, any Sean Connery movie will show you the same thing.

Even with a total understanding of how to look at a woman, you still need to get your keister over to her. Something I talk about in my Mastery Series to help with this is what I call ‘the power of her fantasy.’

Not only do you need to look at her and make her melt, you need to smile. Think Mr. Rourke on “Fantasy Island” when he used to tell Tattoo and all the other workers when the sea plane arrived “Schmiles everyone! Schmiles!!”

So how do you smile when you’re so nervous and all you want to do is run for the hills? No, I’m not talking about that bad show “The Hills” on MTV. This is what I tell guys to do.

Before you walk up to a woman, look at her and picture that she had a sexual fantasy about you the night before. That’s right. Think about how she masturbated thinking about kissing you, touching you and humping you. Think about whatever will let your mind wander.

This will have you looking at her and claiming her with a great and very seductive smile. She is going to wonder what the hell you are thinking. You’ll never tell her, of course, because you’ll get kicked in the keister.

This, along with many more things, is what I teach people. I go deeper into all of this in my programs. This, however, should get you started.

So what happened with that woman in the restaurant? I looked directly in her eyes, and I told my client that there was someone I needed to talk to and hung up the phone. The woman looked at me and said “Do I know you?” I said “Not yet.” Then we proceeded to talk.

I gave her my business card, then left to go on my date. The woman called me the very next day and left me a voicemail. It simply said this: “I want to get to know you.”

Do desire to create this type of chemistry with women every time?

2 ways click on this video and check out how.

Now do you want to learn this at home I go over this in detail step by step in my mens mastery series.