I have been asked over and over by a lot of you guys if I could post a coaching session on the blog. Today and throughout the month I am going to show you a one on one coaching session with one of my clients.
Enjoy and give a big thank you to my client Steve for allowing all of you to peek into his life.
1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.
I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.
Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.
Keep'em comin DW! Man thats one thing I used to fear, a quick witted slap to the face. Hey man I'm 22, recently got out fo a 4yr relationship about 4 months ago. It was actually a pretty unhealthy relationship due to space and time. Fortunately I had the right people to talk to. I don't know everything, but I certainly learn a shit load in the past 4 months.
What i found most helpful after a relationship is working on becoming a stronger individual. Build on your personality by going out, stay active, socializing with everyone, not just the lovely ladies. Then after some time once you've felt a bit comfortable with socializing with everyone in general, you'll catch yourself socializing with the lovely ladies as well. Without even knowing it! Cuase you learn to focus on connecting with everyone, and not just the (what my reggae buddies call) poonaner. Me, I'm still single, and havin too much f*ckn fun, but hey whatever happens, happens.
I think best advice I was ever given was ( and this works for both guys and gals) ever heard the phrase "Dont put the Pu**y/C*ck on the pedestal" (sorry for the crudeness) It's shit like that sadly gets some people to pull that David Blaine bullshit like in the video. (No offense to the client in the vid, Kudos to you for the stellar improvements) Obviously it makes the situation pretty uncomfortable. But leading back to my first point, I personally don't think you can achieve that comfort level with another person unless you can find it with yourself first.
David;
Coaching is great. He seems to be very comfortable with you. He sounds like a mirror of Magic lol
Ummmm, seeing you sit there all laxed out?? Very interesting. Very sexy you are. I like all the talking with the hands. I have noticed this before.
Are you Itilian, And dear Lord, how tall are you about mmm... 6'3" or so?Just curious.
Ok all..spice it up here cause Joans first post...weak in content, but i am weak in brain..lol. it is shower and bed for me. It has been the longest night of my life. ;)
Ohhmm David ....
I'll be honest, let's hump. I haven't a clue what was said during this "coaching" video as I was slowly taking care of personal "business" ... several times.
I wanna to lay my face down in your favorite space.
I wanna be your dog.
Woof Woof ;)
Faryn
Personal business on a Saturday you are a hard worker!!
I like a woman that works overtime! If I was there I would give you a nice overtime bonus!
So you want to roll over on your belly for me so I can make groan like a dog!
What other tricks do you know?
LOL This is getting hot!!! LOL
Faryn I say you roll over stand up on your knees and beg for this! That video was hot Mr.Wygant. You need to put more of those up there. Just tape all your blogs. LOL
Oh it will be good today noe won't it? ;)
What a stir the knowledge of my Hindu chanting has brought on. Does anyone care I'm also researching Kabbalah? Or that I was born into a Catholic family? Rest yourselves everybody who has been bothering a particular someone. This is what I chanted all last night.
Om Sri Dhanvantre Namaha = Om and Salutations to the Being and Power of the Celestial Physician
Om Apa-Damapa Hataram Dataram Sarva Sampadam Loka Bhi Ramam Sri Ramam Bhuyo Bhuyo Namam-Yahana = Om, O compassionate Rama. Please send your healing energy right here to the Earth, to the Earth. Salutations.
Om Hiranyagarbhaya Namaha = Om and Salutations to the Shining One who heals and is Golden Colored
Om Shrim Maha Lakshmiyei Swaha = Om and Salutations to the Great Goddes of Abundance and Prosperity, Lakshmi
Om Gum Ganapatayei Namaha = Om and Salutations to the Remover of Obstacles for which Gum is the Seed
Om Narasimha Ta Va Da So Hum = Om and Salutations to the Principle Narasimha for Destroying the seemingly indestructible
I chant with Amethyst Mala Beads, each Mantra spoken or thought 40 times each. On my alter are Nag Champa incense burning, a bowl of rice topped with ripe fruit, purified water, silken cloth with offerings of silver and gold coins surrounded by small figures of Lord Rama, Lord Ganesha, Lord Shiva, Goddess Lakshmi, Goddess Kali Ma and cards with the images of Celestial Physician, and The Golden One.
If you have any other questions about ME or my life or my practices, ask ME. Tis bloody rude to behave like school children. I am ill-tolerant of rudeness.
And Jessica, go find a proper master to teach you what you need to know. Perhaps you might start with learning grammer more betterer; "I always learn here something!" Really?
Ok y'all....I'm starting to blush, and that is so not easy to get me to blush.
So if I remember what I watched yesterday on the vlog, but wasn't able to access (Don't know what happened),to write. I kind of found the one guy engaging and very nice looking young man, but then after all that chit chatting with the little brunette girl he ran like a scared jack rabbit. Now I know he was nervous and all, but if some guy did that to me I'd be thinking twice about him unless he were very sincere in his email and later phone calls. As for Steve the kinda geeky guy with the magic tricks, I would have sure asked him some of the blast questions, but once he was actually honest with me, and said yeah I learned this to pick up on women, I would have said that's too bad, why did you feel the need to do that? Rather than writing him off. Its cheesy, but it would also depend on how the rest of the conversation went. Hmm..maybe theres some kind of theme there?
Jude;
Hey J-dude, is your alter ego or twin bro jesse james? You sure write alike.... and whats with the cat fight comment, I see no fur flying here so please lets not go there. "Hey Jude, don't make it bad, take your sad song and make it better," LOL No cat fights here baby. "Cats in the cradle!" lol
Bid D, aka daddio, is studly sexy in his video and all us ladies got it goin on for him and are just expressing ourselves, you know, like good ladies should. Faryn's doing herself, and the rest of us are doin likewise we just don't let you guys know it. ;) OMG did I Joan of the blog just go there?? LOL I guess i did:) I need to be Joan of the "beep." LOL LMAO
Believe me, you will know when there is a "cat fight," I usually say my peace, withdraw my beautiful red claws, and skedaddle! I ain't trying to get my eyes scratched out. They seem to be doing me a lot of good here lately and I like seeing as well. LOL LOL
It is one of those days ladies and gents. Read and laugh or read and weep! I am laughing so hard I am weeping--!! LOL
LOL with Joan! Uh, you all just speak for your own sister selves cause I'm at work so truly I am committing more sin by using company time and the network to read Dave's blog. I'll save the rest of that for later....
J-dude;
Hey J-dude, dude, is your alter ego or twin brother jesse james? You sure write alike.... and whats with the cat fight comment? I see no fur flying here so lets not go there..please. "Hey jude (j+dude=jude) don't make it bad, take your sad song and make it better.." LOL "Cats in the cradle" baby.
Bid D, aka daddio is studly in his video and all us ladies got it goin on for him and just expressing ourselves, you know, like good ladies should:)
Faryn's doing herself and the rest of us are doin likewise we just don't let you guys know it. LOL OMG Did I, Joan of the blog just go there?? I guess i did. i should be Joan of the "beep!" lol
Believe me if there were a cat fight here, you would know it. I usually say my peace, withdraw my fresh painted red claws and skedaddle.
I ain't trying to get my eyes scratched out:) They seem to be doing me some favors these days, and I like seeing as well.
I am freshly "groomed" for a little dancing tonight, so i ain't messing that up with a kitty scuffle, I am saving for the "salsa shuffle!" ;) OR the "rhomba ruffle!" Hell i don't know---fun at any rate!!
Good night to all and behave ya selves:)))
Well damn Double post! First i cannot get one in and now you have to deal with 2 versions. Choose your favorite LORD!! Story of my life. Too much or nothing. i am gald to say i have founf balance. LOL LOL
Bertie;
i am sure those who work with you will appreciate you waiting until you are in a private place;)
Yeah I'm sure....I've done some crazy stuff, but that is just a bit more than I wanna even contemplate doing. But that kinda brings me to another question. I don't ever feel sexy at work. Its something they beat out of us in nursing school. So how do you change that a bit when you say meet someone in the lobby that isn't sick, not gonna end up working with you? I can't really turn the sexy off and on like a light bulb. Ya know?
Bertie,
Nobody feels sexy at work! How do you think people feel working in an office the whole day?
They feel dead....
This is why I love this blog! It makes me to feel alive! LOL
Bertie;
Hun, you CAN feel sexy everywhere you go. Wear matching lace garments under your clothes. No one else knows but you, and that is a very feminine feeling. Just keep it professional, but never lose your sexy feeling. Gotta feel sexy!
Jessica;
Girl! REPRIMAND! C'mon. Dang it! We as women are sexy, but it is up to us to pamper ourselves and have that sexy sensuous felling inside even if you are at the grocery store. dress cute, kitten heels you know!!?
OK Pampering? I am there. Dancing in less than 2 hours?? OK it can be done LOL Good night all;))))
Jessica,
I wouldn't have any damn idea what office workers feel like. I did retail and housekeeping through college until I got enough credits to work as a nurse's aide at 19. So no clue.
Joan,
I'm all about good foundations. Pretty foundations, particularly red (since its my favorite color) and lacy, uh except for the bra thing. Can't have the headlights on at work. I wear the cute little boy shorts cause they don't like you wearing the thongs to work. Dress codes and all like that, but still it doesn't help all that much. I even went and bought new shiny, sparkly body jewelry this week at a nice little out of the way tattoo/piercing place. Oh and new satin sexy pjs and well none of it is helping me out by making me feel sexy at work.
Aweee. Home sweet home:) Love to step out, but coming home is sweet! LOL The "youngun" can dance his ass off and I so enjoy the hell out of it and the looks I get from young biatches because he is black hair blue eyed and hot! Then he can dance??? lol JUST GOOD GYM BUDDIES FOLKS! BUT...
My boogie shoes need more breaking in.After 8 or so dances in stilettos, I lok like a damn drunk, and have only had a glass of wine and a virgin mary;) Love the blog when you been gone and come back to see wad up:)
Bertie:
Baby...gosh I can't imagine not to feel sexy. Go latin dancing and move those hips girl with a pair of sexy hands leading your every move.!
Yes the lacy boy shorts are sexy! Thats what I get with the matching lace bra. Anal floss gets a bit annoying after awhile. You cannot wear that?? No "headlights" on. They may be sittin up pretty, but nothing vulgar?!
I am all about subtle sexy. You don't have to dress like a tramp to attract men. THE WRONG KIND OF MEN?? But who wants that? Of course they will look at these women, but I think in the long run a man likes a sexy yet a bit conservative woman. Leaving something to the imagination is important.
MEN...DAVID you are the SEXPERT.. am I right here or?? Let me know your thoughts there. It seems to work on this end of the spectrum;) Called TexASS! lol Can you tell how much I LOOOVE TexASS?? lol
I wish I knew what to do here to assist your iner sexy. when I was a personal trainer, I did A LOT of...i guess you would say Image Consulting.
These women were losing weight, their men were horny as hell, but they didn't feel sexy. My advice was this; Change a few little things for big differences;
1. Sexy haircut Something out of the ordinary for you yet not so drastic you go into shock. LOL
2. Change up your wardrobe. You don't have to spend a crap load of money. Just get a few adorable stylish items you can even mix and match. The key word after that is ACCESSORIZE! Belts, clutch bags, bangles, earings, headbands (if you like em...I hate them..on me) chokers, necklaces, sexy strappy sandals, even a change in makeup colors?... On and on the list goes.
3. At night (this works for me) Take a candle lit bubblebath and put on some sensuous music. You have to reflect on your beauty as a woman. I don't care if you are a woman in the army wearing heavy boots and artillary...you are a WOMAN! Soft, sexy, "sin"suous desireable woman. You have to BELIEVE it to feel it and exude that. Put on the sexy silky at bedtime after some good silky lotion. You wake up feeling soft and sexy. I guarantee it!
4.Believe in your self. Grab the inner you and run with her. She is sexy, she is passionate, she is a go getter, but in the bedroom, she is a vamp, a tramp and a bitch. Men love that from what I hear. Don't let anyone make you feel less than a woman. We were created for many things, and the biggest, to be a helpmate and a pleasure to MAN!! Beautiful concept;)
Good luck Bertie and any women questioning their sexiness.
You know, I am by no means a supermodel, but I know how to pleasure a man and I sure know know how to feel sexy. ;)
Steve:
In reading the posts here, i see you have been by-passed here it seems. I am just as guilty as the next, but i would like to say thank you for allowing us to "peer" indirectly so, but none the less, into your session with david.
I appreciate your being vulnerable enough to share your story and struggles with us. Good luck in your future endeavors Steve AKA???;)
Ohhhh.. This list is the best of Joan! I am going to call it, The Joan's List!
I would add,
1) Listening to the sexy music makes you to feel sexy
2) Go shopping! Nordstrom sells very sexy lingerie Made in France. Very expensive, but reasonable on sale...
3) Read David
Here is another addition to the Joan's List.
Do Denise Austin video exercises before work. It is only 20-30 minutes. She is very sexy and you feel sexy. Feeling sexy is contiguous!
Uh, Well I know that exercising before work is the best thing to do and I'd agree that 20-30 minutes isn't long. It seems like a long friggin time if you have to get up at four-thirty am to do so. Even though I'm pretty barn sour after working 12 hours, I'd still rather do it after work than before because I have sleep issues. I like getting some every now and again.
Jesica;
I hate to negate your choice of workout , and I love Denise Austin. She is a precious person. I remember her way back on Jack LaLane. BUT
There needs to be some rhythm--no rhythm there. The beat is off and is anything but motivating. Now, you want motivation and excitement with a room full of sexy?? Go to this link;
https://www.beachbody.com/jump.jsp?itemID=0&itemType=HOME_PAGE
You will find Turbo Jam--my fav and COUNTLESS number of workouts geared for everybody.Justa thought. Denise Austin is kind of there with the "sit and be fir" energy level. More geared for the elderly or those with health issues with impaired mobility.
Have fun! That is the key to exercising so you comr back fot more;)
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