Why You Should Never Trust a Man Who Runs from Blowjobs

Women's Advice Sex, Turn-Ons & Turn-Offs, Uncategorized

By David Wygant March 14, 2012 310 Shares

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Happy Hump Day everybody!

Today we have a SHORT podcast about…blowjobs.

Every man’s favorite topic and a topic of contention for many women.

This was sparked by a question from one of our lovely readers, Michelle. (Hey Michelle!)

Listen up, listen good, it’s time for David Wygant’s Wednesday podcast:

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So, ladies, what do you think? What should Michelle do in this situation?

How do YOU feel about blowjobs? Let me know in the comments below.

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Denise

Wednesday, March 14th, 2012

Personally, I believe that there is nothing better than seeing your partner enjoy and appreciate what you freely give to him in sex. It connects women to their partner in the most loving way. It feels pretty good to receive as well ;) I feel this man has other issues. It doesn't really matter what they are. Michelle, just know that he was not right for you, he left. He didn't value the woman that you are, or your wonderful "gifts". Keep smiling, keep open and wishing you the best in Life and Love :)

Goddess Katrina

Wednesday, March 14th, 2012

The reason that i am able to give a tantra-style massage for and to my clients is because i do not have the hang-ups some of their wives and/or girlfriends hold onto. Plus, my hands .. and tongue .. are no virgin! Meaning that is all i use - my verbal and communication skills and my healing hands. Mostly, though - my happy heart. Thus, my intro.. Even though i do not offer bj's or other .. on my magical menu, i am quite the expert .. thanks to my oral gifts that i so readily shared, for free - for a long period in my luscious life. And, all i can tell you is that i am the best .. cause i practiced, plenty. And, what you enjoy .. you are good at. And, vice versa. And, now to tell you that the last person, who is tee only male .. in years that i have chosen to 'be' with, does "not like" bj's. Wow! I was shocked when he shared this interesting bit of surprise news. Yet .. he did gratefully accept one of my loving licks . a few years ago and he came in my mouth and I swallowed him .. all up. He certainly did not object. So, why .. does he say one thing and react . otherwise? I feel there is some sort of what he may consider to be a sordid experience .. in his background. Maybe a male came on to him, or he stepped forward .. ? Who knows. All i am sure of .. is that someone is confused .. And, it is not me! Thanks for 'bringing it up,' by the way .. Able to swallow anything .. except BlS., Goddess K

Michele

Wednesday, March 14th, 2012

OMG! Just try to stop me from tasting my man!!! Even if a man doesn't want a commitment, they hang around for more blow jobs!!! Michelle, he's a loser. Take your heart, and your ability to play, and go,elsewhere! Side note: Do you need to refrain longer from packing your pajama's or change your approach, so men know you are worth MUCH more than a blow job? Michele with one L

LoveForever

Thursday, March 15th, 2012

Michelle, if your upset, you're obviously not charging enough! lol

Sandy

Thursday, March 15th, 2012

why is that a guy will put down a woman that does not have climaxes? why do they think that everyone shoots like they do? there are times that I do not have climaxes but it does not mean that I am not into the experience. that is what gets me why does he want us to feel like we are less than a person and great in bed how about this when I want another go at it you can not get it up to c if I can come with u. why is it that you ejaculate before I come? think about guys you pump and come before you did not allow me to get my momentum so how do u expect me to come with u after you ejaculated do you know anything about longevity?

LoveForever

Friday, March 16th, 2012

Speaking of shooting, lol my brother said today that he's going to slit my throat so I think I'm going to take up the guy who wants to go on a date to the shooting range up on his offer right about now! lol

LoveForever

Friday, March 16th, 2012

What was the reason that we shouldn't trust a man who runs from bj's? lol

DJ

Wednesday, September 19th, 2012

I don't think we ever got an answer to the question!!! I did not get out of the podcast why we should not trust a man who runs from BJs!!! I will say however, I dated someone for 5 months and one night I did give him one and he did express that he is not into receiving BJs...blew my mind!!! but then again having sex with him was like having sex with a robot, it was like he was into how long he could go, rather than enjoy the experience. I think it is because he did not want to lose control, because allowing yourself to have an orgasm means you have to let yourself be vulnerable and in the moment. you have to let go and let someone else be in control. This person did not like, "not" being in control, therefore, could not be vulnerable, therefore, I was not seeing the real "him"...suffice to say, I broke it off, he was not being real...

LoveForever

Friday, March 16th, 2012

This is so confusing!! lol It's like, "never trust a dog who leaves and never returns home" lol Ummm...it's a little late for that! lol

Foxxy

Friday, March 16th, 2012

Hi Everyone! I'm betting the answer is...that when a man runs from great oral pleasure, it means he has serious psychological issues and none of us needs a head case for a head job! Sorry if that is offensive, but i thought it was punny!! On a personal note, I thoroughly enjoy giving great oral and find it turns me on even more when my man enjoys it too. What could be more natural and fulfilling (; Should be a freeing experience, not one that makes you or him uncomfortable. I know my man is very happy and I loooove a happy man, cuz he works hard to make me happy. Here's to peace, love and fellatio! Happy Hump Day (a lil belated)

Tina

Friday, March 16th, 2012

@foxxy - I agree it is a pleasurable experienced. The more aroused he gets the more aroused I get. A man who does not enjoy oral has an emotional disconnect either from his partner or within himself.

Sandy

Friday, March 16th, 2012

you know something if a man runs from having either a blowjob or sex with a woman would it not raise a question? is he homosexual? just curious not to be offending.

Tina

Friday, March 16th, 2012

Hey David - Maybe you can do a blog/podcast on what makes a good BJ. A lot of women find them intimidating. I used to run away from them because I did not know what to do and on top of that my anxiety lessened the pleasure when I did attempt to do them. It would be a great service to mankind to educate us ladies ;)

Michele

Saturday, March 17th, 2012

Go David!!!!! do the podcast . what makes a great one?????

Roxy

Saturday, March 17th, 2012

I am with Tina, would love to know what constitutes a great blow job to a guy! I have asked before and men tell me there is no such thing as a bad one and I have it down. It is clear that some are better than others. I have always enjoyed them, am told enthusiasm a big piece, and never miss an opportunity to swallow. What about the in between me telling him I have to taste him, and and that last lick to be sure I got every drop?

Josie

Sunday, March 25th, 2012

Practise makes a great one... and enjoying it too! I know that I give great BJ's.. have been told many times lol. However I have had one partner who, while they enjoyed oral and loved what I did, wouldnt come in my mouth, because he said he prefered the sensations of intercourse. Wonder how I should take that one?

Roxy

Sunday, March 25th, 2012

If it makes you feel any better Josie, my current boyfriend feels the same way about 90% of the time.

Why You Should Never Trust a Man Who Runs from Blowjobs

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